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I had a missed miscarriage last oct and went for a medically managed miscariage to pass it so was awake and not pleasant as sat didnt work so had to go back monday. I was alone due to covid when they told me no heartbeat as was an ovary scan due to an embreo that grew lrge so was not expecting that. That was through IVF. I am now 17 weeks again IVF and find myself back in that chair alone being told over and over. You find ways to try and accept it and not move on but move forward but i still struggle daily with the loss. Also it didnt hit me for about 3-4 weeks after then i just broke. Just make sure you talk to someone and allow yourself to grieve properly xx
I want updates from you ladies, this is so scary and sad to hear. How are you? How do you feel? If you guys just want someone to vent at or listen send me a chat. Ill just be an ear if thats what you want. ❤️
I’m so sorry. I went through this in 2018. Truth is it gets easier with time, though you never really forget. Give yourself enough time to grieve and know that it’s not your fault. I pray it’s good news when you go check again. Sending love and light
Oh girl...I had the same thing happen to me in September. Personally i believe we never truly get over death, I think we accept it and carry on. First, acknowledge your baby. This may sound weird, but it helped me. Give it a name and thank it for being with you for as long as it was. The book the miscarriage map is really helpful. I would read it. I also found journaling really effective. And sharing my story too. Also, let yourself grieve. Cry as much and as long as you need to. I know you feel as though you may not make it. I know you feel as though you may crumble and I know this pain. It’s unimaginable hurt and frustration. And I know that when people say they are so sorry (even when they truly mean it, it doesn’t help) You will get through this. I am so sorry!! If you need up talk. I’m here❤️❤️❤️❤️
So sorry for your news! This happened to me twice before I had my beautiful daughter. It turns out i fell pregnant with her about 2 days after a D&C (don’t ask me how, but she is a miracle). Keep up hope 😘 x
This happened to me before . I had a missed miscarriage and it was very hard on me . I cried for days and no one knew how much or hurt . I'm here to talk for whatever happens just shoot a message if you need to ❤ you got this and be strong
So sorry mama🥺 stay positive!💗
That happened to me with the no heartbeat with my second son at 10 weeks and had a threatened miscarriage at 11 weeks and by the 12 week I was still actively bleeding and was scheduled for a D&C ...But before the procedure We prayed and he sent me up for a ultrasound or a viable pregnancy and He is now 4 years old... I pray that you have the same miracle.
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Glory to God!!!!!
How far along are you? Have you had any bleeding or abdominal pain? Like some of the other comments suggest, it could just be early. I suffered pain and bleeding last December and unfortunately it was a miscarriage. I was really early. Just try and stay positive and don't stress. Xx
so sorry thoughts and love with you❤️
Hi how are you? We were doing the anatomy scan and there was no heartbeat. This was two years ago. We did go for a DNC it was horrible. They put me in the labor maternity ward of the hospital even though I was not giving birth. I was out for the whole procedure which is good my legs hurt after the next day because the way they position me during surgery. You’ll be fine after physically but emotionally I will take lots of time if you ever ever need anything please PM me it is hard to get through this.
There’s nothing you can do but give yourself time darlin. It’s heart breaking. But nothing with hurt you the same way again in your life. Being a woman can be pure suffering wee flower. I’ve got to the 12 week scan twice to be told that there’s no heart beat. The only thing that got me though was trying again. I had a D&C in may and was pregnant by June. This is my 3rd pregnancy in 10 months. It’s crazy what we put ourselves through. However I knew in my soul that if I kept going I would have a healthy baby and I’m now 27 weeks. You don’t know how strong you are until you’ve to face this hell Xx
Oh my goodness honey, I’m so sorry. Please, just know it’s not your fault.
That’s heart breaking news. It sounds like there’s a chance they just weren’t able to locate it. Either way this is the worst week. My advice would be to reach out to everyone in your support network and process through what you’re feeling. Don’t keep it inside and don’t isolate.
Hold on to hope momma💕 praying for you and baby🙏🏻🤗
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Wishing you all the best and I hope you get some good news at your next appointment! I had a D&C earlier this year so happy to share my experience, feel free to message me. GOOD LUCK x
I’m praying they’ll find a heartbeat at your next appointment! Sometimes in the early stages it’s hard to find. Did they do an ultrasound or have one scheduled?
That’s awful mama, hopefully baby pulls through an has a nice strong heart beat come Friday but still brace yourself hope for the best and expect the worst.🧡
omg i’m sorry to hear that. Are you sure of the weeks you are ? it could just be to early loved just a little hope 🙏🏾
What a little fighter!! So happy for your outcome💗