• I
  • Syracuse, United States
  • 8 months ago

Wanting to adopt

Ok so I've been needing to talk about this for a while but I have only been shot down. I was adopted. The women who I was adopted away from was awful. She saved me. She inspired me to do everything I can to be like her. Now I always wanted to one day be able to say I saved a child like my mom did me. Now I have three kids and I really want to adopt one more because I feel like that's a way I can be like my mother. But my husband wants no part in it. He won't even let me bring the thought up in conversation. it's tough. Sooo please give me advise
  • C
  • a day ago

Hmm maybe adopt a woman for my hubby. 😂😂😂

  • A
  • TX, US
  • 15 days ago

I’m right there with you. I was volunteering to support a teenager who is in the foster care system. He became really good friends with my son and I want to adopt him but my husband doesn’t feel the same way. I wish I had good advice but I don’t. It caused some fights in our home me trying to change his mind. I guess my only advice it not to force it. Plant the seed and see what happens.

  • S
  • Sparks, United States
  • a month ago

Me too! I was just contemplating all the kids I could have right now if I didn't let men influence my choice. My husband is not interested in even talking about family adoption. All my cousin's kids could be mine and my sister's that's 5 kids now my cousin just had a nother baby this week. I have been wanting to breastfeed a new baby again. Yea I didn't tell my husband I want the baby. 😩👶🏼 sorry no advice, but I had same happen it's been 7 years of regret so far. 😭

  • B
  • Windsor, CA
  • 3 months ago

Keep bringing it up becus its meaningful to u idc why someone wouldnt want to .

  • B
  • Warren, United States
  • 5 months ago

We just finished up our adoption journey and finalized a few weeks ago. It was such a long up and down journey, but I wouldn’t change it for the world. I hope we are able to adopt again! For anyone waiting to be matched don’t give up its worth it!❤️

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