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7 week miscarriage :(

I have had an early scan today due to a miscarriage at 16 weeks last year..after telling me initially that there were 2 sacs they told me that there was no heartbeat. So we went from thinking omg twins! To nothing. I’m heartbroken. However, what has confused me is that there were two sacs..one was empty and one the...

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Consultant was rude and cruel

I’ve just came back from my 32 week growth scan and consultant appointment and she’s made me feel absolutely awful. Baby’s had a big growth spurt because of my GD that I’m still working with the diabetic clinic to get under control. Babys above the 97th percentile and measuring about 5lbs. Basically the consultant ...

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C Section 1 week countdown!

One week today, I’ll have had my elective CS. Boy, oh boy, I am SO scared!!!! Scared of spinal block hurting, scared of the wound/ scar, scared of the mummy pouch, scared of being a Mum! Any really happy, wonderful stories and positives would be much appreciated 🙏🏼😘🩷 FTM!

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Emergency or urgent scan at 28 weeks

I had my 28 week scan today and my midwife said my bump was on the smaller side. I got an urgent scan appointment and then I was sent to the wrong hospital. I am really stressed about this. Has anyone else had similar. They told me it was urgent but now they are putting through as an emergency.

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Baby boy finally arrived

Baby boy finally arrived 4/04/24 9 days late by emergency c section, then we both needed up staying in hospital for 2 weeks as we both had an infection his wasn't to bad and cleared up nicely and didn't bother him too much, where as I had severe sepsis and am so lucky I was in hospital still cuse could have been so ...

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Feeling Judged 🤕

So, I’m currently 34 weeks. I’ve been asked now by family and friends what my birth plan is; epidural, natural, etc. I’m really not stressing too much about it at all I’m kind of just hoping to go with the flow but I’m not opposed to getting an epidural or even scheduling a c section. I also believe that planning ...

Incognito
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Mucus plug?

I am 30 weeks pregnant I have been contracting last couple days, have had 2 today. And now have stringy like mucus discharge only a little bit? Is this mucus plug? No blood it’s clear? What do I do? I’m alone with 2 kids and very worried.

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is my bump huge for 19 weeks?

i am 19 1/2 weeks and i feel like my bump is really big, but it almost just looks like stomach fat to me. when i stand its a bit more firm i guess, but sitting/laying down it looks like a lot of chub. this is my first pregnancy and i’m very tall too so im not sure why i feel so big unless its normal to look this way...

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Anatomy scan

heyy , so i had my 20 week anatomy scan today and i was told my actual scan would take about an hour as they are checking everything in detail but i was in and out within 15 minutes. I feel like she was rushing and not looking as thorough as she should have been or is that normal?

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Baby movements/BH/contractions

I’m 40+5 today and feeling fed up like most people in this boat! I’ve noticed that almost every night the baby moves a lot and I can feel it pushing down and giving me proper like period pain feelings. Is this the same thing as a contraction or is it different if it coincides with baby moving? It’s really hard to lo...

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Reduced movement triage visits

Has anybody else been to triage multiple times with reduced movements? I’ve been in 3 times already in the last couple of months, most recently only last Monday. Today my baby boy’s movements are definitely reduced again. My belly feels different so I’m thinking he must’ve moved positions but I’m torn whether I shou...

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Cause for concern?

I’m 15+4. Went for a scan yesterday for gender and baby was all okay!💗💙 just went a toilet and got a tiny bit of pink blood on tissue, nothing in the toilet pan. I’ve had some pressure in my lower part last few days but this is baby growing I take it? I don’t have any severe pain etc. Please mummies any advice x

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C section?

So I went in for my induction yesterday, which failed due to the placement of my cervix and was told I wouldn’t be able to deliver naturally, I’m super scared of having the section done, has anyone got any tips to think positively about it

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Hospital bag

When does everyone pack their hospital bag? I’m 28 weeks and have started packing but is this too early?? I just want to be organised and with also 2 kids to sort before eviction day (elective section) I just want to be as chill as I can be for a few weeks before baby comes if that’ll even be a thing!😂😂

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Anyone ever gave birth at 30 weeks?

How small was your baby? How long did you stay in hospital? I have a very bad feeling my baby is coming soon. I have been beating last couple days and contracting and have had a lot of stress. I’m just worried if he did come any time soon would he be ok?

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Elective section

I am going to be having an elective section after an emergency section with my daughter nearly 7 years ago at 37 + 5 weeks due to a failed induction. Does anyone know if they are likely to take me in before the 39 week mark or is this a pretty adamant rule they don’t defer from with an elective?

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How do you make a complaint Universal credit?

They’ve sanctioned me because I chose my hospital appointment to going to them it’s not my fault when I send a message they never respond or take days to respond and now made an appointment on the day I’m meant to get paid from them. And I told them that’s impossible now they are telling me to call up for a hardship...

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What would you name her?

Jumping on this trend🩷

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How am I supposed to know baby is ok in there?

It's too early for most of us to be feeling movements, but the symptoms mostly fade after the first trimester. I'm 16 weeks on Wednesday but how do I know that baby is still OK in there with no scan til 20 weeks? 🥺

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What would you name her

🩷🎀🩷🩷

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