Perineal massage - worth it or not?
I'm currently 34 weeks pregnant with my second baby, and with my first pregnancy I did perineal massage religiously towards the end - I didn't skip a single day. It wasn't exactly fun or comfortable, and yet when it came to the birth, I ended up having an episiotomy anyway.
This time around, I'm wondering whether it's even worth bothering with. There are already so many things to think about and prepare for, and between harvesting colostrum, getting everything ready for the baby and having a toddler to look after, it can feel like a lot of extra preparation.
So I'm curious about other mums' experiences - especially those who did perineal massage with their second or subsequent baby. Did you feel like it actually made a difference? Did you avoid tearing or an episiotomy and feel that the massage helped? Or, like me, are you just not really sure whether it made any difference?
I'd especially love to hear from anyone who did it religiously the first time and then either did it again or skipped it the second time. What did you do, and would you bother again? ❤️