Community Posts, Tips & Support on Pregnancy Loss

Just a little vent, I don’t know what answers I’m expecting from this 😂 I know sex during pregnancy is safe but I’m sooo scared to have sex with my boyfriend as last time we had sex when pregnant I bled straight after and then miscarried and I don’t want to risk that happening again. He’s so understanding and…

Hello everyone I’m here for opinions. I an currently expecting my 4th baby and it’s a GIRL!! I’m full Of joy. I have three other children Boy (12) Girl (9) and Girl(3). Now I was hoping for another boy and admit I did go through a couple days of Gender disappointment but I’m over it and I’m very happy with my baby g...

Hi all, I found out I was pregnant in June but shorty after had a miscarriage. I then found out I was pregnant again a month later without having a period. I had a scan on Tuesday (meant to be my 12 week scan) and there was no heartbeat 😭 unfortunately last night I started miscarrying. I’m absolutely heartbroken…

So i have had quite a few pregnancy losses now in total, but this year alone 4 very early miscarriages all on birth control 😭 why does various types of birth control not work for me.. Me and partner discussed trying for another recently deciding that i will come off bc. (have a 2year old girl already my little…

y’all i am so scared . i have been to the ER 4x in the past week . thought ectopic but i’m not . then today they suspect i may miscarry but couldn’t say for sure cos i’m not bleeding . just nauseous & in a lot of pain . i’m so scared .. i don’t wanna lose my baby 🥺 i’m 6 weeks today

Hiya ladies I suffered a miscarriage to my little boy last month, I’m just wondering how long everyone waited to try again? I’m so nervous but also really want to try x

Really need some advice as I’d like to get back trying asap. For anyone who has had one before, how quickly did you ovulate again? Do you count the first day of post-miscarriage bleeding as CD1? I read online that the bleeding is not considered a regular period..

I've been so nervous about testing because when I miscarried in June, I never got this far to get a 3+ on a digital (I know not everyone does). But this morning I got my 3+ with my little rainbow🥺🤞🏻🌈 keep sticking little one💕

We're in the post partum "roommate" phase, which I know will eventually pass... but I keep having these recurrent dreams/daydreams where I kick my husband out for cheating on me. They're weirdly satisfying. He hasn't really done anything wrong. Anyone else have this?

Hi, anyone who has been classed as a high risk pregnancy… when did you get your first scan? I’ve been classed as HR as I’ve had 3 recurrent miscarriages but I’ve not had any problems or bleeding so far so just wondering if my first scan will still be 12 weeks or earlier. Thanks!

I found out yesterday, told friends and immediate family. I had a miscarriage in June so I’m hoping this is my rainbow baby 🤞🏼 based off Flo I’m 5 weeks I’m calling my doctor soon to set up an appointment

Hey girls, First time mum here, I’m currently 6w3d but when I tell you I am struggling, oh my god. I can’t eat, I can’t sleep (because I’m constantly nauseous/being sick) my back is absolutely killing me, I feel super drained and I’ve completely lost all my colouring, as in I’m pale as f***!!! Is this normal? I am ...

How long after a miscarriage did you finally test negative? I’m only one week post miscarriage but still getting very positive tests 😩 I had hoped they would at least get lighter after a week. It has me feeling discouraged. We miscarried at 8w and while we do plan to wait until after my first period to try again,…

For anyone who’s been on prednisolone when/how have you been told to wean and stop them during your pregnancy? I’ve been given one regime by my IVF clinic and a completely different one by my recurrent miscarriage consultant, neither of which will communicate with each other! My gut says to go with my miscarriage c...

In July I had a miscarriage. I was 5 weeks and 3 days. Now I’m pregnant again, I’m 4weeks 6 today, and I’m absolutely terrified for the next few days. I feel like my next checkpoint is Sunday. But it’s only Tuesday and I’m proper worrying. Does anyone know how to stop being this scared? Or is that just a normal thing?

I’ve been getting weekly scans since I’m in a high risk category (recurrent miscarriage + SCH). The fetal heart rate at my 8 week scan was 157. At my 9 week scan today it went down to 145. Anyone experience something similar? Am I just spiraling?

I have an early scan booked in for 8 weeks as I’m a high risk pregnancy. I have everything going through my head right now! I don’t have much in the way of symptoms and I dread the thought of a blighted ovum (would there realistically be symptoms for that already?). It’s honestly scaring me! Any advice or positive s...

Hey! I’m almost 12 wks and have a BV infection. Has anyone had one of these? Do they cause miscarriages?

Sometimes I end up day dreaming, and I’d see myself break the news of a MC… It’s like I practice how I’ll behave to show people I’m ok and not to make them uncomfortable while breaking the news… I’m sorry but I haven’t even had a miscarriage, baby is fine, I am fine! We’re going to do this… so why the hell is my bra...

Hey mamas. I’m sure this is a common question but when did y’all start your periods again after your miscarriage? I miscarried on August 21st and bled for a little over a week. I haven’t started my period again. When did y’all?