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Potty training is easy who people who say it isn’t actually just cba with accidents or the effort

There have been reports that show the number of children starting school still in nappies has risen dramatically in recent years…

DISCLAIMER: obviously if your child is showing some signs or awareness!!!!

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Potty Training Advice

What’s everyone using with regards to potty training?
We have just purchased a potty to start training but first time mom so all very new 🫣 Should we be using pull ups or pants? I keep seeing Upairy training pants but not a clue if these are worth the money 😕 We’ve just let her float about without a nappy this morning but obviously this wont work when out and about.

Any advise or suggestions would be much appreciated x

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Introducing the potty

Has anyone started potty training or at least introducing the potty? Cause this was gross lol we haven't yet but about to start introducing it because this child pooped and then immediately put his hands in his diaper.. I'm talking all over his hands, arms and legs. So gross 🤣

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Teething

My little girl is almost 6 months and her two bottom teeth are about to come through.

Is it normal for them to be extra tired during day??

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Staying home while potty training

So I’ve just finished day one of potty training (I only started after the nap, so really it was more like half a day) and already struggling to see how I can stay in for the next couple of days just until baby starts working out the basics. Most sources say to go naked and stay within arms reach of the baby with a potty, which means no leaving the house. This afternoon, we did training pants (but thin ones, so we did have a couple of splats on the floor). She cried after her first accident and tugged at her underwear for each subsequent accident. I did manage to get a whole poop in the potty though!

We had the tv on for her all afternoon because I just didn’t know how else to keep her close to me without getting bored and wandering off. I want to try naked for the next couple of days but then I have no idea what to do to entertain her. She likes to draw but that really will only hold her attention for so long. She loves to read as well, but even that got boring for her today!

Anyone have any other ideas? Or is it okay to do a lot of screen time in these early days? I’m just hoping we can move onto the next phase (with less accidents) in the next 4-5 days, but in the meantime it’d be 4-5 days of screen time

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SEND HELP!

My daughter is 2 and a half years old and something finally clicked and she pees on the potty all the time but will only poop in her diaper or the bath tub.

I obviously try to make her go on the potty but she refuses. My biggest thing is how do I get her to stop pooping in the bath tub? Any advice is welcome just please be kind 🤍

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Potty training

My toddler is 32 months and we've been trying to potty train him for months.  At his daycare, they have a potty room and they practice throughout the day.  But when he moves up to the next room, he needs to be "fully potty trained."  That can happen anytime between turning 3 and 3.5 years old.  It depends on readiness and space in the room.

I bought a set of cloth pullups on Amazon, but they were way to thin.  Plus he genuinely did not care that he was wet.  Admittedly I got very discouraged and gave up quickly on cloth.

My mother in law (wonderful person) watches my boys every Thursday.  Since she has hardwood floors she uses disposable.  

We switched to disposables, and have been using them for months.  He is good at going pee when we bring him to the potty, but he has no idea or urgency to go to the potty.

I also have a baby, and so I am struggling with balancing holding and playing with the baby and potty time and time with my toddler.  We don't go to the potty a lot (several times a day, but not every hour), as I don't want it to be a fight (he normally goes there willingly for my mom, mother in law, and me.  My husband can rush him at times, and then there's a fight).

I was desperate and slurged on a pack of the Upairy training pants.  They are slightly more absorbent, but the Large (largest size) is skin tight on my toddler.  It doesn't leave red marks on his skin, and the boy is pretty vocal regarding things being too tight, so I believe they are okay, but I don't think I'd buy more based on how snug they are on him.  Today is day 1 of trying the cloth ones.

I keep reading that cloth pull ups are better, but I dont know.  He genuinely did not care that he was wet and dirty twice now. 

Are all the adds my social media is feeding me true, and I need to switch to cloth pullups?

Helpful tips on getting your partner on board for scrubbing poop out of cloth pull ups (or even carfully removing them from the toddler)?

We are using a reward system. He has a potty chart with 100s of sticker. He gets a small prize every ten times he goes. He likes earning stickers and prizes, but again he doesn't have the urgency to want to go potty.

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Black dot on molar. HELP

We brush our daughter’s teeth twice a day using fluoride free toothpaste. She was breastfeeding up until about 6 weeks ago and is 22 months. She does not have a bottle overnight. She hardly ever eats refined sugars and generally does have a healthy diet but does consume fruit numerous times a day. I noticed this black dot a few days ago and have tried cleaning it thinking it was food stuck but it’s not budging. She has been to two routine dentist appointments however they have never looked in her mouth as she just screams the whole time. How can this be a cavity? We brush her teeth the best we can, granted it is over quite quickly as she is normally screaming. I always brush it whilst she is laid down in between my legs with arms pinned down. Any advice please!!! I will obviously book another dentist appointment but I am feeling very sick at the thought of her having a cavity. My friends don’t even brush their kids teeth or lets their kids do it, how can this happen to my child when we have always been so through brushing her teeth.

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Teething qu…

So my LO seems to be teething - constantly dribbling and biting his hands, crying etc. But he seems to have a tooth coming through on the side (white bit in pic on his bottom right gum) but I thought it was always front teeth first? Now I’m worrying it’s something else?

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Potty Training Help

I’m hoping to get some advice on potty training my 2.5 year old daughter. This is the second attempt to potty train her as the first time she was not ready, she refused to sit in the potty without a nappy on. She now understands what a potty is for and is happy sitting on it without a nappy, but is only staying there for about 30 seconds, I don’t want to start reading stories as i don’t want her to start thinking when she needs to pee she gets to read a book. I have put some knickers that she has chosen on and put a nappy over it hoping that when she wet herself she would be uncomfortable and want to be changed but it hasn’t worked. She didn’t tell me when she peed, when I asked her if she had peed she said yes. How can I get her to realise that she’s not supposed to be walking round with wet underwear?

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Potty training

Due to start potty training on Friday, has anyone got any tips and tricks?

Going to make a basket up next to the toilet with books, stickers and bubbles, is there anything else people used that really helped? I've got a toilet seat with steps and a carry potty.

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potty training advice

hey my son is 2 and I need some advice on how to quickly potty train him. He’s in daycare and they sit him on the toilet and potty train but he’s not good at realizing right away when he needs to pee at home. What’s the best way to potty train a 2 year old quickly ? Thanksss!

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Am I a bad citizen and a terrible example?
So today we went out for a walk & my son needed to pee, bt there was no toilet in site. I told him to just pee on a tree, so we hid & he did! Was I wrong? What would u have done?

I’m also overthinking cuz I’m asking myself would I have told my daughter if I girl child to pee outside?

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2 year old keeps pooping on the floor😩

Any tips to get my 2 year old to poop on the potty/toilet?

Currently potty training my son doing the no diaper/underwear/pants method and he’s doing pretty well with peeing. He goes to the potty himself when he feels he has to go and even when he starts to have an accident, he will say uh-oh, stop peeing and then run to the potty to finish peeing.

He absolutely refuses to poop though! He knows when he has to poop because he comes crying to me saying poop, help, diaper (he wants to put on a diaper to poop) so when he does this I take him to the potty but he refuses to go. He will sometimes sit up there for as long as 10 minutes (I don’t make force him to sit that long, he chooses too) but won’t go!

He will then poop on the floor instead. I know learning to poop can take longer than learning to pee but wanted to post in case anyone experienced this and has any advice for me! I’m wondering if I should try to put him in underwear, so at least he’s not pooping all over the floor but I also don’t want to mess up the progress he’s made with peeing in the potty.

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Potty training horror

My son pulls my finger when he has to poop right... but he leads me in the kitchen or he will walk right past the bathroom into the living room. AND then when I try to take him poo to the bathroom he kicks, cries and screams. Hes 3. What should I do?

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Is anyone else’s baby showing signs of teething really early? 👶🦷

My little girl is only 10 weeks old, but she seems really uncomfortable with her gums. She’s chewing on everything, wants to suck constantly, is drooling loads, and seems much fussier.

Everything I look up says she’s too young for most teething gels, so I’m feeling a bit stuck.

If your little one started teething early, what actually helped soothe them? I’d really appreciate any recommendations!

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