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Child minders sending child home

Does anyone have issues with child minders asking you to pick your child up as they are unwell and when you do there isn’t anything wrong? Iv recently gone back to work and this month he has been sent home more times than being at the child minders, we pay a lot of money and feels like such a waste , and I’m so lost...

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Should I leave?

Yesterday evening I went out to go to the pharmacy and left my toddler and husband home alone. I stayed out around 20 minutes. When I came back home my husband told me that our child cried the entire time because he wanted me, he didn't finish his dinner and husband was very annoyed. At first I was very supportive ...

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I’m a horrible person

So my husband found out his dad has stage 3 cancer. His dad doesn’t have a support system or family other than my husband so my husband decided he needed to go to see his dad (he leaves in another state) and take care of him during treatment. The thing is he got to his dad 4 days ago, he kind of rushed his trip to s...

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I feel like Nara Smith 😭

Yall I made this baby friendly pizza and the “pizza crust” out of mostly just veggies and you can’t tell me I’m not Nara smith this was sooooooo cute !

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Feeling like a bad mum

My little boy is 3 in July. He’s been really tough going to bed recently and it’s causing a lot of tension. He woke up at 4.30am, my partner went to change him as he had wet through. He was in there for an hour and a half trying to get him to go back to sleep but all I could hear was constant crying and screaming (w...

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I NEED TO VENT

Ladies, it’s 4:44 am and I’m just so upset with my husband right now. I had a friend over for dinner and all of a sudden I was not feeling well, not sure if it’s food poisoning or gastro. I’m very rarely sick and ended up throwing up for hours. He’s a very supportive husband and I asked him to take over the night ...

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Mum win.

I've been feeling low and really felt like I'm off the ball: but I've just sat down and looked at this week alone..&& my little one has settled sooo well at nursery, we're out of nappies at night and everywhere we go all I hear is praises about my lo how..polite they are, how gentle they are with other kids and just...

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Venting

Today i asked my bd what happened with his taxes. He claimed her and we discussed he would give me money. I haven’t heard anything about it so i asked about his taxes. He said i used it to get my car out, im like how much you get he told me and i said oh wow. And left it at that. But to just use that money knowing I...

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Exhaustion is hitting different

I had my first baby at 18. It was a breeze. We had issues but it was not exhausting. Second baby at 24 and being pregnant was hard. I didn't get to experience life with him because he was still born. Next child was born when I was 25. I was so worried she wouldn't make it but I was exhausted I also worked 50+ ...

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Feeling like a bad mom

Hi ladies… I just had my baby boy at 32 weeks exactly on the 13th of April and he’s currently in the nicu. I feel hopeless and like the worst mother in the world as I can’t be with him 24/7 and I honestly am so scared that something will happen when I’m not there and he needs me. I’m also trying to breast pump to...

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Childcare

What’s the best childcare for your little one cost wise. We both work full time. No help from family. £900 per month for childcare and was wondering what the best funding help there is. I’m in Scotland so things are different for us up this end in regards to entitlement. It’s killing us with the cost of living, mort...

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Venting

I been taking my son to this group twice a week. There’s a gross motor room which he don’t like but he really likes the fine motor room. He gets really mad in the gross motor room like he will throw tantrums and his entire body around on the floor this is going on for at least 40 mins he’s so mad. He does get thru t...

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Child maintenance

First question: What percentage of child maintenance is taken from a fathers salary if mum is full-time caregiver? Second question: My partner has 2 children from a previous relationship. In the event that his ex issues him to pay child support through CMS, would I as his new partner and mother of his newborn be a...

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FTM looking to take LO on first holiday…

Single first time mum wanting to get some sun with little one… anyone have experience going abroad with a 6 month old ( looking to go June) like what to take etc getting through airport with milk etc Bit of a minefield but really wanting to get away after a few stressful years Any tips? And any particular places a...

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Advice please!

So my almost 16 month old daughter was eating ranch and popcorn chicken and this happened right after. I’m not sure what’s going on, doctor is sending her to an allergist because it could be that or a sensitivity thing. I just want to know what I could do differently and if any other mommas have this problem with th...

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Anyone else’s child an absolute stress head?

I feel like I’m a VERY chill and unserious person but my son (4) is CONSTANTLY stressing out!!!!!! Idk what to do!!anyone else’s child constantly stressed?

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Worried about PND

I am 39+1 and couldn't have had an easier pregnancy. No sickness, mood swings, or troubles in general really up to third trimester. Then I got a bit more tired and achy and the heartburn and insomnia kicked in but still felt like nothing major. Now this week just feels different: our car broke and the garage has be...

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Is it all kids or just mine...

So more and more I'm noticing my daughter lie to me... like today I told her to shower and she pretended to take one...I asked her to unlock the door so I can pee and she was like I need to use the bathroom I told her to open it now and she did... so apparently she ran the water never took off her undies and straigh...

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6 month olds breakfast

What is everyone giving their little ones for breakfast? We started wearing a couple of weeks ago and despite trying a few different things multiple times I can’t find anything my little girl likes. I’m doing a combination of traditional and baby led weaning. We’ve tried plain porridge, flavoured porridge, weetabix,...

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I'm having trouble getting my little one to eat with a spoon/fork

My little one has shown some moderate delays. We're in a program called babies can't wait and she's advancing well. However, one of the things she struggles with is using utensils. I've tried everything I know to do. She gets impatient, throws the spoon or fork and uses her hands. Usually won't even try. My mom said...

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