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Refusing to eat!

My son is constantly like this when it comes to food. Whether it's finger food or spoon fed... this kid refuses to eat!!

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Rant needed

Sorry for long post So I need to rant which isn’t usually like me however it’s getting ridiculous and I want to know I’m not the only one going through it. My partner is constantly on his phone, ignores my LO even when she brings him a book or toy, I tell him to just watch her whilst I do something (for example pu...

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I made my BD mad. This morning he very much wanted to do some things. But I was rocking the baby to sleep. He was literally humping me, and trying force himself in me while I tending to his child. I got up, and told him “dude, I’m busy.”

All HELL broke loose. He gets up cussing me out. Telling me if he were Johnny depp or some dead ex of mine I’d be all for it.

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MIL

So my MIL was up yesterday after months of previously her not coming up… My daughter turned around and went “who’s that” I did correct her and say gran because she doesn’t see her as such or she would have said. Whenever my MIL was saying gran or granny to her my daughter was just giving her a blank look to be fair ...

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Opinions please

So my partner and I have a 4 week baby, I also have a 3 yr old from a previous relationship. Since Friday he has been out 3 nights not home till after 11. Texted me this afternoon saying he was out tonight. Am I wrong to be annoyed? Feel like I’m here looking after the kids and he’s just out with his friends. I’m al...

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How to tell sil she isn’t welcome to interact with my children

My husbands sister and I don’t talk at all, this is from years of disrespect and bullying. But when we are at family functions, she starts interacting with my kids (one Inc a 3 month old) when I’m on the other side of the room etc. So how can I address this with her? I only see her at family functions. How do I go...

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How are people affording Nursery?!

Just...in general bit of a whinge. The whole system seems ridiculous. Only want to send her 2 days a week, but now I'm having to work extra days to pay for her to go and roped in (very luckily, grandparents) to help. I'm working just to send her, when I'd rather just be at home with her myself as I do quite lik...

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BLW mamas

Are you LOs actually swallowing much food? My LO is playing loads and learning but the actual amount she eats is minimal. For example, she’ll suck on toast strips for a bit and then throw on the floor - so she hasn’t really eaten anything I know food before one is just for fun etc, just interested how much other ...

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Husband being lazy ?

So I'm having a really hard time not getting super irritated and frustrated at my husband and step daughter even. I'm almost 2 weeks post partum. It feels like I'm doing almost everything by myself. I'm doing the dishes, laundry, picking up all the garbage they leave around on the counter and throughout the house....

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Am I being overly sensitive here?

So my child's pre-school closes at 3pm. I've never been late, and I know for a fact I was standing in the line around 2:55pm. This is my daughters third week at school (she's goes in 3 days a week). She's never been upset during drop-off or pick-up time, even on her first day. Today I went to pick her up and I coul...

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Why does my husband blow so hot & cold with trying for another baby?

Basically, I have spoke to him several times about having another baby, no pressure on it. But it frustrates me that he blows hot and cold about it, one minute he's like "I wonder what our oldest would be like as a bro" "anything can happen in life, lifes too short not to", Saying baby names he likes and asking if I...

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Childcare

So I’m currently pregnant due end of December. I have a soon to be 2 year old in October. My partner has a great job and recently had a pay rise. We’re thinking about putting our daughter in for 2/3 days a week so I can get the house sorted for our new arrival but I feel so bad😢 I have the choice for times. 7:30…

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Baby classes and groups?

Where do people find info for baby classes and groups? I can’t seem to find any online, or they’re just extortionate prices? Any in West London???

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I just need to VENT 😭

Omg I'm soooo irritated ! So my fiance works graveyard so he's asleep most of the day & I have 3 boys ages 3,2, & 10 months ... && I'm 17 weeks pregnant 🥱🥱😮‍💨 sooo when it's time for the older two to take their naps I usually get tired as well , but that's when the 10 month old wakes up from his nap & wants to get…

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Potty training

Hello, 1 week into potty training we’ve averaged at 2 accidents a day. Taken my daughter out today and she’s had an accident. She’s both weed and pooed in her knickers. She’s yet to have a poo on the potty just feeling a bit exhausted by the whole process. Feel like I’ve spent the whole week on wee watch. Is she jus...

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Purée foods! 🍎

Helloo! My nearly 8 month old is super picky with savoury puree foods, at breakfast she likes the fruit puree, trouble is they’re aimed at 4+ months is she still okay to have these or should I stop buying them and persist with the thicker purées and savoury? 🤔 Thanks!

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The nerve of this man

Tell me why my partner invites his sister to come see our baby during his nap, when he’s been so colic that it takes a lot of effort to put him down. I just got off my phone appointment with my therapist and have yet to get dressed. I’m recovering from a cold and on my heaviest day of my period! The bathroom is a me...

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is this hella annoying or do my friends just not understand what it’s like to have a baby

i need to rant! so my husband is in the air force and three years ago we moved across the country. since then we’ve had a baby and friends and family have come down to meet him. i made it very clear i was not traveling with the baby for the first at least year of his life. now with our babies being/almost being six ...

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Back to work!

Back to work in a few weeks and have not sorted childcare! Does anyone know of nurserys in North London that still have spaces? Lo is 10 months

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What i eat in a day - baby edition

Today: Breakfast - Philadelphia on toast cut in strips, water & a strawberry yoghurt 7oz of milk Lunch - Fish fingers with peas & a banana, water Will have some porridge before bed tonight 7oz of milk before bed What about you? Should they be having snacks at this stage?

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