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Starting solids at a little over 5 and a half months old

Me and my mom(my son's nana) have been starting to give my baby boy solids at a little over 5 and a half months old but so far only tried strawberry yogurt he has no teeth in or even coming in yet but our home visitor I seen yesterday an told her about starting solids now she said that's great but if going to now j...

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Dad not bonding with baby

My birth didn’t go to plan and ended in an emergency c section, my partner found the ordeal very traumatic and confided in me that he felt some resentment and was struggling to bond with our baby. He’s since gone back to work and we sleep in separate rooms so i do everything for the baby, he maybe holds him for 10...

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How long would you ground your 8 year old for this?

I told him he could use YouTube on his phone if he didn't look up anything inappropriate. He did. I deleted YouTube. Lecture about inappropriate online stuff. The he downloads an ai app with pictures of anime and real people with big butt's and big cleavage. Another lecture. Then he downloads a chat ai bot thing wit...

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Would you forgive it or how would you deal with it ?

My partner of 3 years (2 kids) missed my first mothers day, my birthday every year, our anniversary, this year the same, he got me some delayed mothers day flowers but it was how he went about it n the lack of effort and niceness still ruined it or is that ungrateful? He still missed birthday and anniversary soon af...

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How long do the TERRIBLE TWOS last???

How much longer can I expect my son to be this demanding, SELFISH, impatient, antagonistic, refractory, exacerbating, unbearable Ahole?! Any time I try correcting the behavior, I feel like I'm talking to a brick wall! Am I doing something wrong, or is this a phase he will eventually grow out of 🤞🤞 please please…

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Toys/ Activities

Please recommend what toys you are using for your little ones? My 11 weeks old seems to be getting bored during his wake windows and i want to get him some stuff. Thinking about a play mat with toys maybe?

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Teething but no teeth coming in yet but been starting to show some signs of teething at 2 and a half months old or 3 months old🥺🦷

My baby boy is a bit over 5 and a half months will be 6 months old on the 19th and he's full on teething now is drooling a lot more and swollen cheeks by his ears and he's been chewing on his fingers a lot since 4 and a half months and yesterday we went to a parent and baby group and he was fussy almost the whole ti...

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Struggling

Sometimes I feel annoyed or agitated with my son and it makes me feel like he's a burden. I know this sounds bad, but he's going through terrible twos and as a stay at home mom I feel burnt out. I can't do much, not even leave his play area to get water without him having a meltdown over a toy. Has anyone felt this ...

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When to stay or go?

I’ve got 2 kids 3.5yrs and 7 months old, I love my bd but also resent him aswell, as he’s selfish and just does as he wants and leaves me with the kids all the time. I’ve never had a night off, as I always do bedtime yet he goes out all the time. I’ve spoken to him about it a few times in the last month and even to...

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Is there such thing as a part time house helper lol

I need help with kids with daily life with cleaning with cooking all that shit especially when I take the kids to outings and events

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Potty training

Hi, can anyone advise on tips for potty training? My son is coming up to 2 and a half next month, he’s recognising when he needs a wee etc but would rather wear a nappy than use his potty, he will sit on it, same with a toilet seat but so far he’s only used his potty once. Any tips are appreciated

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Unsuccessful weaning

Hey, LB is a week off 6 months, watches us eating constantly, able to sit in his chair, brings toys to mouth all the time. We attempted to start weaning as he seemed to show all the signs he was ready. We did a mixed approach of puree and some baby led (steamed broccoli head and the rest blended to a puree for exa...

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Pudding with meals

My LO is 8 months and on 2 meals, breakfast and dinner. She eats loads at breakfast if it's porridge/yogurt/weetabix but barely actually eats much at dinner cause its more finger food. Today and yesterday I've given fruit and yogurt with her dinner and she's pretty finished her plate and not needed a bottle straigh...

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Interfering in-laws ?? (First baby)

I’m having a really hard time telling husband’s family that they are being too overbearing . They are trying to choose nursery furniture, prams, clothes etc. I feel like I’m suffocating from it all. They want to be involved in every decision. They are telling me that when the baby is born they plan to spend everyday...

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How much is your little one eating?

My son was born on 12/27, so he just turned 3 months. He’s eating 5 oz and he’s still wanting to eat every 2.5-3 hours. He’s such a chunk these days he’s gotta be at least 16lbs. How much and how often ar your 3 month olds eating?!

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1.5yr old and 3.5yr old, is it normal for me to end almost every day in tears?

The constant trashing of the house, not sharing, pushing, shoving, meltdowns when trying to leave the house, every single mealtime is a battle and a failure… is this normal?

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4 months eating cereal

Baby girl turned four months on the first. Her appointment was yesterday and the doctor said that it was OK to start feeding her liquid solids. Also, it was OK to give her 2 to 4 ounces of water a day with solids. I started her on oatmeal and breastmilk today. She enjoyed it although she still prefers to nurse, whic...

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Mums of 2.. rage and impatience with eldest

Is this a thing postpartum because I am really struggling. I have zero patience with my eldest and his tantrums are very very very extreme at the minute. I am borderline breakdown and have to leave the house a lot to take deep breaths etc. I feel myself at breaking point with him, and I know he is a toddler and t...

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Morning - bottle or breakfast first?

For those of you who have little ones that have started weaning off milk and eating more solids. Do you offer a bottle or breakfast first in the mornings? We’re now down to 3 bottles a day, with the middle one getting smaller so I can see that being dropped soon. My issue is that my little girl loves her food at ...

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Teething gums

Hey is it normal for baby’s teeth/gum to bleed slightly when teething? Especially when the tooth is pushing through?🩷my boy is 6 month old xx Thank you!!

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