Why can't I have kids too?

😢 I know how it feels like. You see all your friends and family getting pregnant and you staying behind. Do not give up. My husband and I have tried for 5 years and our rainbow baby is finally on the way. It will happen, don’t lose faith! Sending baby dust to you. ❤️

By any chance, do you have pcos?

Have you had any tests done? It might just be a hormone imbalance and could be sorted by additional hormones! Fingers crossed your able to get it sorted and become a mum soon 🤞 x

If you have PCOS the journey is harder but there is hope honestly, there is so much conflicting information and advice out there but ultimately you need to look after you and do what makes you feel good! Everything I read said to go low carb and monitor GI etc so I tried various diets including keto, what worked for me was going vegan and exercising! Focused on making myself healthier and was so shocked I never thought it would happen!! Lots of love and hugs your way take care of yourself don't get sucked down the rabbit hole of negative thoughts 💕💕

It took me 5 years. I finally got pregnant after going raw vegan and getting in good shape. I have PCOS.

I have pcos and I have four children was told I will never have kids I started taking Angus cactus pills its a herbal remedy not saying it will work but it helped me and it maybe worth a go. Also I did think about adopting as there are so many kids that need families and well I was looking into that I fell pregnant so good luck

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Thank you! Where could I get some cactus pills? I'm willing to try anything.

hi love have you thought about IVF

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I didnt think about it before. I'll look into and how I could have this done.

I have PCOS and tried for over a year to get pregnant. I was told to try Vitex and I was pregnant within the next month. This stuff worked great for me.

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What is Vitex?

Have you had bloodwork done or gone to a fertility specialist to be evaluated? I have pcos and the journey to conceive is tricky, but not impossible, we conceived with clomid. Sending you lots of baby dust✨✨✨

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My Gynecologist and 2 other doctors cant do anything for me so they referred me to an outside fertility Clinic. I went but all we did is talk and I payed 700$ for 2 hours just for some bloodwork. I'm still waiting for another appointment

If you have PCOS try Inofolic Alpha. It is regulate your cycles back.

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Could I get this over the counter or is it only by doctors referals?

Hey! Ya you can order online I normally buy from here. Use below link https://www.fertilityfamily.co.uk/inofolic-alpha/?utm_source=Local&utm_medium=Organic&utm_campaign=gmb_infolic_alpha

My husband and I have fertility issues so we ended up adopting and are in the process of becoming foster parents. I know it doesn't exactly answer your question, but our son has brought us a lot of joy. There are a lot of children who need loving parents so something to consider. Best of luck on your journey to parenthood!

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Thank you so much. My husband has brought up adoption and I would love to adopt. But something inside me really want to conceive at least one child. Weve made a few calls and emails to adoption agencies to get some general information about adoption. Were still in the midst of that too.

Let me know if you have any questions about the adoption process. I am always happy to help.

I have no advice, just wanted to say. Waiting for my babies was the most painful and longest years. Nothing ever filled that ache of where my babies should be. All I can say is that maybe your journey to motherhood looks different than expected but it doesn’t mean it’s never going to reach your destination. I’d say consult fertility doctors if you aren’t already. Have as much hope as will keep you sane! Some days hope was the source of my disappointment. All I can say is try to find joy in other aspects of life right now. Learn to enjoy life even when it hurts and is hard to bear. It’s a good skill for motherhood and to pass on to your children. I hope that you are able to hear good baby news soon. ❤️

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Thank you so much. I will keep this to heart. It's difficult and sadly sometimes getting my hope too high has landed me low in my depression. Best of Hope to you too❤💫baby dust for you💫

I have PCOS and hypothyroidism. I managed to get into a fertility clinic and started getting some information. HOWEVER, it was incredibly helpful once I did my own research too. Adjusting diet, taking supplements, going to the gym, and overall taking better care of myself helped. Metformin was too hard on my system 💩, so I took inositol instead. I also had to do the highest dose letrozole, but I got there after 3 years. It’s doable. Start doing your research and make your plan now to get pregnant and strive for it every day.

We were trying for 5 years. Decided to see a fertility specialist and now we have our almost 3 month old son. Best decision we've ever made!

I was in a committed relationship for 8 years, and we never even had a pregnancy scare. I thought my junk was broken. Come to find out, it was him. 4 months of unprotected with my husband, and we were pregnant. There could be a multitude of different things happening. I'd suggest seeing a specialist or for him to. My husband and I talked about adoption and fostering before we decided to get married because I really thought I couldn't conceive.