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He keeps cumming inside

I don’t understand my husband. We have agreed that we will wait until next year to have another baby. I am currently not using any contraceptions (by choice). So it is quite easy for me to fall pregnant and he knows this. He has been using the pull out method and condoms ever since I gave birth to our child who now ...

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42 pregnant and anxious

Hello all, I am 42, expecting an unplanned baby in November, BD and I recently broke up, we had only been together bout 4 months. I feel happy about baby, but I can help but think that my life seems over. I have two other children 9 & 11, I have 50/50 custody with their dad. I was a stay at home mum until my younges...

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Going back to work

So I’m going for a job interview as I want to go back to work for a number of reasons 1. To save money as myself and my daughter will be moving out soon and furniture is expensive and 2. For my own sanity as much as I love being a mom going all day majority of days without speaking to anyone other than my baby is dr...

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Mum group

Hi everyone, Im a first time mum just gave birth to beautiful girl 4 days ago. I’m not really familiar with AU system and was wondering how can I find mum groups around me? To make friends, share experiences and hang out with our babies, etc. any guidance is appreciated 😊

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MIL HELP

So my partner doesn’t talk to his mum, he hasn’t since before we met really. He tried to rekindle their relationship when I feel pregnant but it just didn’t stick and I didn’t feel that it was my place to talk for both of them you know? So I stop texting her and told him it was up to him and her if they wanted to ...

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Romance rant

I’m such a hopeful romantic and I reminisce on my ex but I’ve swallowed the hard pill🙃 i just have zero opportunities of connecting with male energy and have always been a home body & now I’m going to be a full time momma bear and self employed girlie and I’m just like idk when or if i will ever meet a guy who i…

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Friend where have you been?!?!?!

I’m biracial and I have always had a very hard time with finding friendships my entire life. It’s either people saying you’re too pretty, you don’t speak the language, you’re not enough of this half or that half. Have any other mixed women experienced this? I just want one loyal ass friend for once in my life. I jus...

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Fantasies

Since I’ve been pregnant I have so many woman on woman fantasies that I wish I explored when I was single. I’m sure porn has contributed to it haha. But an all female orgy, sexting with another woman, or getting fingered in the bathroom at a bar just sounds fun and exciting.

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BD dumped me via text at 13 weeks

Hi, I would like to vent and get some advice. I’ve been with my ex boyfriend for 2 years. Last year he out of the blue broke up with me, blamed me for a lot of things. Later discovered he had OCD and said that was the reason for his insane behavior. He went to therapy and tried to win me back. I wanted to give him a...

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Need a buddy!

I'm looking for a friend (near or far) that would like to chat often or even get together! About me: ☆I live in NE Michigan. ☆I am married and have a 17 month old son! ☆27 year old SAHM ☆We have dogs, cats, chickens and dairy goats! ☆I enjoy photography, reading, learning to garden, baking, camping and spendin...

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Toxic friends

I have two friends who I was super close with, but they’ve been horrible to me the last couple months and a big argument has caused us to not really be speaking/close as we use to be. I’ve come to realise they never liked me to begin with and were just using me for money/third person to be make them feel and look go...

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:) Happy Sunday, ladies !

Has anyone made new friends on here yet? :) cause I need some friends lmao

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Can’t stop thinking

Me and my partner met last year and I fell pregnant super quick in July. Was not planned obviously. We stuck it out and got to know each other. But in January I found out he was in a relationship with another woman until November (When we moved in together) I should probably add that this relationship was a phone...

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Boyfriend texting his ex

So i currently got into a relationship with a guy he claims that this person is his best friend but it’s his ex I know I shouldn’t be going through his phone but lately I feel insecure and like his hiding something from me he isn’t but this text message idk how to feel about it the other message will be in the comments

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Coparent apps

Hey does anyone use an app to communicate with their ex? If so what do you use? Whats it like? I’m worried incase he starts sending me loads of messages like he would of WhatsApp

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Have you met any new mum and baby friends on here as yet? Or better met them by doing organised mum and baby groups?

Am on a local mum and baby WhatsApp group / Facebook group. And I’ll be honest I’m pretty guilty of flaking myself on the odd meetup that people have chatted about. But most also flake aswell. I guess we / people have good intention to go and then on the morning the babies not settled, or tiredness is prevalent or l...

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