Asap
Arrange a date in public and talk in person. If he’s wanting to hang ie no date then he’s a hook up guy
From the outset. But guys do lie, so take him as what he says, but look for red flags….like always talking about sex, love bombing and moving things too fast.
I find out before the meeting. I know I'm dating to marry so if we arnt both doing that we're just wasting each other's time