I’m emotional and need to let it out

So I’m 16 weeks pregnant and today is my 30th birthday. I normally take my birthday off but this year I didn’t sense I’m pregnant and my son (10) has school I didn’t feel a need to sense I can’t do anything crazy like I usually do. On Sunday me, my son and BD went to the beach and had a good day kayaking in the ocean and had dinner and basically celebrated then but I am so emotional today feeling like I don’t matter. All I’ve gotten is a happy birthday before work. I didn’t get texts through out the day, didn’t get morning s*x or even maybe a donut in the morning, I already know I’m not getting anything special when I get home, no cake. Just nothing to make me feel like I matter. I always love my birthdays and usually my mom makes it special for me but she can come visit this year. I’m extra emotional from my hormones but I feel like that just means I should have gotten some more love and affection than normal. I just wish he tried today, I wish I was given a little extra love today on my birthday especially when I don’t feel like I’ve been getting any love throughout this whole pregnancy 😢🥺

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So sorry love❤️ happy 30th. He’s probably waiting to surprise u when he gets off work. Keep ur chin up boo🥰🥰

@Lytia (31) thank you! I just feel like if I have hopes for that I will just be hurting myself more

Happy birthday!! ❤️ girl go get some cake and eat as much as you want! My boyfriend does dumb shit like this too and is just so oblivious. I got nothing for valentines day and cried for like 2 days and then finally told him it made me really upset. He felt bad because he had no idea I wanted at least flowers. So if I were you I would just tell him. Boys can be so oblivious

Text you’re BD and tell him how you feel. While you’re pregnant it’s even more important to openly communicate how you’re feeling or things can spiral downward. Happy birthday!!! Treat yo self!

Text him tell him you are looking forward to a birthday bash when you get home. Then go get yourself a cake and flowers and something else fun! Make the celebration your self and maybe he will add to it when you get there.

@Mallory yeah he definitely can be oblivious, I just wish he wasn’t lol I will definitely try and treat myself a little tonight and hope it helps

@Danielle Ugh I feel that. Like just be spontaneous dude! It feels less special when you have to tell them

Happy 30th !! 🥰🥰

Well first of all, happy bday queen 🎉👑 Talk to him! I know, it’s so annoying that we have to tell them everything we want and everything we expect 🙄 but since he didn’t do much today tell him what you were expecting him to do, also I think this is important because he is teaching your son how to treat you, I’m pregnant and I’m gonna have a baby boy so since now I’m telling my bd that for every bday I want him and the baby in the morning with flowers and a big surprise for me because I really want my baby to learn that I deserve all that and even in the future he also knows how to treat his future partner/wife

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