Have you gone through this?

I really need support. Has anyone else had a narcissistic family? Since becoming a mom I never heard from any of my family, and I feel sad about it… no one has acknowledged my child. I’m trying to find closure, I know this doesn’t affect my value as a person. But gosh it hurts. I thankfully built my own family that’s awesome. But I wish my family I come from cared.
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Hey, I am pregnant with my first and have been trying to rebuild the relationship with my narcissistic parents, it is extremely difficult and heartbreaking. I recently had to make the decision that the relationship cannot be mended due to them not caring and denying anything that has ever happened, while blaming me. I have absolutely zero family, no parents, grandparents or anyone to share the fact that I am pregnant with my first with! But the only family that truly matters is the one you create and the one that choses you! Therapy definitely helps and acknowledge the fact that their actions are based on their own insecurities and self issues! It has nothing to do with u! Text me if u need to talk 😊🙏🏽

@Talia 🥰 Congratulations on your baby, that is so amazing! I am so sorry you’ve had to deal with a similar situation with your family. They are missing out! Thank you so much for your words. While it hurts so much to be not accepted by my family I come from, I also think it is essential for my child to be away from that. It is best for my child to surround them with safe loving people. I am so proud of you making that choice too. You’ve got this 💗

thank u so much! i agree! i want a positive happy life for my child and i 🩷 much love & support 🙏🏽

Your familys action doesn't define you. I'm sorry for what you're experiencing as that is definitely not easy but it sounds to me.. cutting them off may be the best thing ❤️

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