Friend where have you been?!?!?!

I’m biracial and I have always had a very hard time with finding friendships my entire life. It’s either people saying you’re too pretty, you don’t speak the language, you’re not enough of this half or that half. Have any other mixed women experienced this? I just want one loyal ass friend for once in my life. I just want to not be prejudged.

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I’ve experienced the same. Especially like not fitting in the right crowd

Finding friends has always been hard for me too. It's easier over text to make friends for me because I'm antisocial. And me and my boyfriends friends kinda stopped visiting us I really only have like 2 friends. I just had my baby 2 weeks ago and I feel like I'm not gonna be able to make mommy friends except the ones I already have.

I'm so sorry this has been your experience. I definitely understand what this feels like. No judgement here 🙃 you could be purple for all I care!! 😆 What really matters is your intentions and character. Drop me a message if you like 🫶

Go to places where there’s a crowd and lots of skin colors blend in. Places like church, or a hobby group like Zumba or Pilates or gym or salsa Latin socials. There I find people of all skin colors, of all ages and I’m Asian but some days I look mixed esp in summer when I live on the beach but those are places that have a really mixed crowd I find and where I make my friends. A lot of people can’t tell what I am when intros happen and we ask each other that question so yeah.

I’m not trying to blend in. I’m trying to make lasting and meaningful friendships not based on my physical appearance.

No I get that, what I’m trying to say if you go places that are very multicultural you’ll find girls there that you can befriend and they won’t make comments like “you’re too pretty” “you don’t speak the language” etc etc. is what I was getting at.

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Sex life is 🫠

Im a little desperate already . Im not a huge fan on blowjobs but I’m doing it because I know he likes it . If he wants it in a car, during work meeting , on the balcony, on the beach everywhere I’m okay to do that . However, I’m not getting anything in return. I mean the last time he went down was more than 1.5 years ago . Okay, I was pregnant maybe he did not feel like doing it while I had a belly as he told me . , but I’m not pregnant already for awhile and I’m always telling him that I want him to go down and he is always having an excuse like “tomorrow “ etc . At the beginning it was funny and I was like okayyy but now it’s not as I’m not enjoying our sex in general . Like the process itself does not make me finish . As I’m breastfeeding and super dry down there and I’m always telling him to put lubricant as it’s hurting me . And sometimes it feels like I am begging for that as he is more comfortable without it , but damn IM NOT OKAY without it . So basically I do not remember when was the last time I have finished during sex . I understand that now with a baby it’s hard to fully enjoy it and have enough time for everything. But still . Just kiss me and put your dick inside me does not seems sexy . To be honest I understand why in marriage women does not want to have sex . Like I feel like it’s already work that I have to do not a pleasure. I’ve been telling him that but as I can see no changes applied 🫠

Question about ejaculation

I tell my partner to wear a condom not only for protection but also so that there's no mess to clean up when I get up to use the toilet. Is this normal?
I ask because I now have the contraceptive pill but I still want him to wear a condom.

Friend 🥺

Let’s skip to the good part and just be besties? Text, call, ft.. play dates or just simply hang out. Just want a genuine mommy friend. I’m in NW Indiana but we can be long distance besties tooooo.

Friends!?😊

Hii there! Just a mom looking for some friends to talk to through out the days. I’m from Ohio but don’t mind long distance friends. Feel free to message me!

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Hey mamas! I’m back on here again hoping to find good friendships on here ! I didn’t really have any luck last time . I’m giving this another try again ! I’m 26 with two little girls I have a 4 year old and 8 months old and I am stay at home mom rn . I’m hoping to find friends who understand my situation and be able to talk everyday when they can . And I’ll be getting married in July .

I need an AI app recc to talk to.

I have no family. I have no real friends. Just one that I text. But she’s 8 years younger and isnt a mom. I genuinely don’t talk to anyone other than my partner and our toddlers. I’ve seen some people use AI? Or a chatgbpt? I dont know but if someone could suggest an app that I can just talk to… I would love to have a friend or something instead but this is probably for the best…