Am I in the wrong?

Hello everyone so I just needed to have like a mini rant but at the same time I needed to ask if I’m in the wrong so currently due to financial situation we don’t live together but we are still together but we basically share custody at the same time so he does not tell me when he plans on bringing our son who is under a year outside he just wants to do it whenever he feels and I told him before that I feel like he should be telling me because then I’m the one who asked to bring into the doctors if he gets her, I’m the one who makes the doctors appointments every time he gets sick. I’m the one who has to get the new clothes. I’m the one who has to you know I do everything and he kinda just has him for three days and does whatever so because that she was telling me to relax because I got upset that he didn’t tell me that he was bringing our son outside in the rain. I was like he does not need to be going outside in this type of weather. Am I wrong for being upset that he didn’t tell me he was gonna bring our child out in whether that he could possibly get sick?

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I can’t make sense of this? I don’t understand, if you are meeting up and it’s raining then how else would your child get there? Also you can’t get ill from going out in the rain as far as I’m aware???

Sorry can you clarify, is he taking your child out in the rain without adequate clothing? If the child is dressed properly and is enjoying the weather then I don't see a problem, id not expect my partner to tell me and I wouldn't tell him either. You can't get sick from the weather. They can get too cold and maybe if they had a compromised immune system could cause some issues, is that the case? X

What I mean is he’s with his father right now (we don’t live together) and he didn’t tell me that he was planning on going out with the baby today and I had called him and said I’m gonna come by and work my second half of my shift of work at his house so that we could spend time together because our work schedules are messed up but then his mom called me and said he’s going out probably till like New York City and I got upset because I was like why would you bring him out in this nasty weather when he’s already sick?

Thanks that helps If he's sick of keep him inside until better. If he keeps doing it when your child is sick then id tell him that it's probably not the best thing. However if properly dressed, fresh air is good for children even when sick. Seems the problem is more that you wanted to spend time with him and your son together x

I still have a little trouble making sense of your story, it’s hard without punctuation. But from what I gathered, I think it’s okay if the child is going outside as long as he is properly dressed. It’s an old wives tale that you “catch a cold” from being outside in the cold. So I don’t see why a doctor would be questioning you if they have been outside. Now if your child is really sick, it’s probably best to stay at home… but a mild upper respiratory infection shouldn’t keep them locked indoors. But if you’re co-parenting you won’t be able to control if the other parent takes their child out.

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