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I love my boyfriend but I haven’t felt like he loved me or is excited about our daughter in months he rather jack off then touch me and if he does touch me he talks about bringing another girl into bed with us I love him but I am becoming miserable. I don’t know what to do. (I don’t mind him jacking off but like I want to be touched and loved the way he use too) EDIT: He seen me come to bed he came in here trying to have sex with me after me telling him how I felt then he said it was unfair of me to feel sad he talks about other women he’s a horn dog just a young man. I think tomorrow I am gonna pack up something’s and leave for a while see what he says or if he does at all.

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Girl men ain’t shit my bd the same way been gone out of town for work for a week and has yet to reach out and talk to me but been out partying every night spending money on drinks and dumb shit w his friends when our baby has nothing I’m miserable too I’ve been saying this whole time pregnancy is the worst shit on earth I’d never do it again

@Mica I am so sorry to hear that that’s messed up. My baby has some of what she needs from family and Facebook I’ll be honest. We are one income and that’s his but I am to the point im ready to pack up and leave. I’ll be able to get a job and support us. I hate men.

I definitely feel you on that ! I already made up a plan I’m gonna get my cna license renewed so that way when I’m Able to work after I have her I’ll be able to take her and we can be in our own space. Good thing we don’t have to put up with it forever

@Mica I hope things work out. I am just so over this bullshiz I just wanna be happy and girl I have been miserable lately.

Things will work out for both of us we just have to get through it for a little bit longer 🤞🏽 keep your head up ! 🫶🏽

If he was saying “he’s a horn dog, just a young man” that is such BS and proof he is not ready to be a dad or mature enough to manage a relationship. That is boy shit and you deserve a man (if we sticking with Males.) That is an excuse the prioritize his own needs over commitment and others. It’s trash. Mama, you deserve better!

Leave while you can before you bring your baby into this world and end up heart broken finding out he did something then gaslights you into feeling like it’s your fault!

@Kassy it’s not easy for everyone to just get up and leave that cost money and not everyone has that

@Morgan lately I been feeling like he already has. Like he took this woman home from his friends and didn’t tell me till after the fact and then pretended like he didn’t know this woman that is ALWAYS at his work. He is gonna be an amazing dad but I am not sure if he will be good to me. He got mad that I record our arguments but he has had me trapped in the bathroom on the floor (bathrooms have been my safe place since I was a kid I’ll sit on the floor in front of the door.) he pushed into there and grabbed me and I sicked his dog on him. So I been recording since so I have proof if he try’s to take me to court for full custody.

Sister, I am a therapist and I work with some DV clients, and let me tell you. Those are 🚩🚩Red Flags 🚩🚩 Make a plan and get out, before things escalated. Take care sister!

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