Tired

My bd was my boyfriend for majority of my pregnancy, but he dumped me beginning of third trimester saying we should just be friends bc he isn’t good enough for me or the baby and we should find someone better who can actually provide for us and things like that… but we’ve remained friends and he’s still said he loves me, we haven’t seen each other in person since the breakup bc i genuinely can’t handle being around him without wanting to beg for him back, and pregnancy hormones makes it all 10x worse bc nearly every day of this last trimester i’ve been crying bc all i want is him.. and everyone told me to give it time bc he’s probably just scared but for a few seconds it seems like we’ll be good and he’ll be semi flirting with me and then the next he’s acting weird and just a month ago we were looking at apartments, cars, jobs that would support us for the future… and then his friends and brothers got in his head now he just is distancing himself and i hate it bc i miss him and i want him back but i’m trying not to be overbearing but i can’t help but write paragraphs to him telling him how much he means to me and how he should just stop listening to others… i already felt ugly and gross for being pregnant so young and now him breaking up with me just makes me feel even more worthless and unwanted i just wanna be in his arms 💔

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I can’t let him go I don’t want to be with anybody else and I feel like people let relationships go too easily and that’s why nb stays together for long in this generation, but I fight tooth and nail for us, we literally were discussing marriage he said he was gonna purpose to me on my birthday and then did a 360 idk what to do anymore, i want him i only want him… i don’t think it’s about another girl or anything bc he’s still texting me as much as he did when we were together so i still have his attention, we literally text all day until he’s going to sleep.. but idk how to get him back, i don’t wanna let go i want him back and nothing that worked before is working.. this is our 3rd time breaking up and before i’d get him back so easily but idk now

He’s probably scared like you mentioned. I know it can get overwhelming with all these hormones and you want someone there to care and support you but you’re doing yourself more harm trying to run after something that flew away. Give it time if it’s meant to be it will return back to you. Right now just try and focus on being healthy and strong because everything you feel the baby feels. You’ve got this girl 🩷

La mymmm

I don’t understand? You don’t break up with someone because “you’re not good enough for that person or your child” you work on yourself to be the best possible version of yourself for your partner and child? Hope you’re ok. It all sounds a bit weird to me. Focus on yourself and your baby. Pregnancy hormones are no joke. He’ll be the one missing out and full of regret!

Sounds like he’s not ready to be a man if he’s letting other people talk him out of his literal family and trust me you don’t need a boy raising your child. Being young kinda works to your advantage here, if not him there will be someone else who will come along and step up for you and your child❤️

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