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Call me a baby 🙄

But I’m about to delete this app. It was so helpful in the beginning, and I don’t feel I post very often. Yet lately when I do post, needing advice…I can almost never get any feedback. Yet there can be 40+ comments on a post about someone’s relationship that no one really knows but wants to give their “red flag” “le...

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Am I petty?

It’s mine and my partner’s anniversary tomorrow (not married, just a memorable day). On our first anniversary, he suggested going for food (he forgot, didn’t get me a card). Last year he forgot (next day I got some lovely earrings and a card) - I was two weeks away from giving birth and I was so upset I wasn’t ackno...

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Tired

My bd was my boyfriend for majority of my pregnancy, but he dumped me beginning of third trimester saying we should just be friends bc he isn’t good enough for me or the baby and we should find someone better who can actually provide for us and things like that… but we’ve remained friends and he’s still said he love...

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I feel like I missed my opportunity to explore my sexuality

I am now married with a 6 week old. I love my husband to bits, I really do. He is a walking sculpture in my eyes and overall is just amazing and delicious… but I also like women. I always knew I did but rejected it mostly due to religious values. My husband himself is bisexual and that’s something he had the chance ...

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Is it just me or does any other SAHM feel the same??

It’s literally so depressing not having literal friends to come over and visit with you and vice versa. I need adult friendships or just a couple friends in general who I can call or text. Being home all the time is suffocating at times especially today, for me. I don’t have friends cause I don’t go anywhere lol I...

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Waiting 12 weeks before having sex

Hello I was just curious on if I should be patient or not. I’m a little over 6 weeks post partum and my doctor gave me the green light to do all my normal activities just that sex may be uncomfortable until about 12 weeks and then it shouldn’t and I told my boyfriend this info and he wants to wait the 12 weeks to ma...

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I have a question

so me and my bd have a 1 y/o recently found out I was expecting twins &’ he was also cheating during valentines as much as I love him &’ crave the intimacy we had I also feel discusted even asking I recently did because it’s been 3months and I’m currently 15wks he then tells me “that’s why your pregnant now “ then ...

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AITA ??

am I the asshole ? okay so a little back ground, my bd hasn’t seen the baby in a month because he chooses his new girl over his own child. he don’t ask about the baby or nun of that, has me blocked on everything. but tries to reach out to my brother or mom which he didn’t have a child with either or. last time he to...

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Sex positions during later pregnancy

hey yall! I wanted to ask if yall had any advice for comfortable sex positions during the later second trimester. I still want to be intimate with hubby, but we’re having trouble finding a comfortable position for me with the bump. 🙈

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Mama bestie

Mamas, I’m terrible at this app. I don’t always get notifications when someone messages me on here. I’m just trying to find my mama bestie. Someone to talk to, meet up for coffee and play dates, and who just gets mom life. I’d love to find someone to text and possibly meet up with soon😊

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iMessage games/friends

Anyone down to play iMessage games and become friends ?? 👀 I be bored lol

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Badger notes

Anyone else having trouble logging into badger notes? I’ve been logged out and can’t get back in, usually log in via the nhs app login but it keeps saying something went wrong. Been like that for 2 days now. Anyone else having trouble with it? X

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What’s wrong with me

Why do all my friends leave? I don’t know what I keep doing wrong. I’ve found connections on here that are soul tying and they still leave. 😞 what am I doing wrong? I wish I was better. I feel so alone and isolated.

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Hey yall looking for friends 😘❤️

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I want to leave my fiance but I’m 31 weeks pregnant

I am 31 weeks pregnant and ever since we found out my fiance keeps going out all night getting drunk and doesn’t answer his phone. He keeps missing work coz he’s hung over and losing even more money which has put us in a bad financial position. All the finances are in my name coz he can’t get credit. He has spent ...

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Mummy friends wanted

Hi All. Looking for mummy friends. Someone who would want to text/ facetime , have girls day with and without the kids. Basically a best friend as sad as that is to admit 😅🤣xx

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Looking for a Bestie

I'm 28. I live in Nova Scotia, Canada. I am a Registered Nurse. Honestly, I don't care where you live..looking for some ladies to really get to know !!

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Is he cheating ?

So we haven’t had sex in a long time and now we just had sex and this is the second time he go soft on me I’m currently pregnant

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Advice from boy mums to girl mum!

So i’m a girl mumma but i am 33 weeks pregnant with a boy 🥰. I’d really love any advice on taking care of a baby boy and what to expect from baby to toddler! and anything you wish you were told. Thanks mummas ❤️

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Picnic

I'm thinking of doing a little picnic tomorrow for my son at the field in kingsway near asda to make the most of the hot weather we're having before it rains again next week. Would anyone wanna maybe meet up and come hang out with us?

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