I have a question

Wait so what’s the question.

Lol it was so much going on but it’s a worth even staying ?is just a phase…my Bestfriend mad at me she thinks I should just cut his off and go straight to that clinic like an I that in love that I’d have 3 kids by 24 because I’m expecting twins

IMO… I don’t think you should stay. He’s cheated while you were pregnant. Girl, I’d go home.

I agree with PP. men tend to do things and if it was you who did this to him he would not like it one bit in fact he would be devastated. The cheating will never not bother you becuase now you don’t trust him! As far as the baby’s that’s totally up to you. I say do what’s best for you & your situation if you can support them all 3 plus yourself if not then you already know your options . I don’t blame your friend either for giving you that advice she being real as hell.

I wouldn’t stay. I’d expect him to always cheat and that just sounds like way too stressful of a way to live. I’m 28 and have 2 year old twins and a newborn now. Twins are HARD but I know a lot of single twin moms still rocking it. I swear sometimes dads just get in the way during the baby phase anyway😂

@Angel &’ did but in my defense he didn’t know I found out I was preggo after he left because he was so he didn’t blatantly but still I understand 😫and now he tries so touch my belly and kiss it but I got ptsd atp

He will always cheat . He stopped messing with the chick becuase he got caught which means if he wasn’t caught he more than likely would have still been cheating . Then burning him is another thing becuase sometimes you aren’t always lucky you’ll get some ish you can’t get rid of

@Morgan thankkk you for your twin mommy advice 🫶🏾! I’d have agree they do tend to😂

@Diamonaya that’s real that’s what I have to appreciate her for, we don’t have that option to leave so make sure you can sign up for full responsibility regardless, ig the leaving part is the most difficult decision for me! And your right I’m constantly walking on egg shells uneasy

I agree with your best friend.

Ima say this as easy as I can , You already said it he only came back cause she burned him , for starters ain't no way you cheating AND GETTING BURNED secondly no I will not take him back or stay because now that you stay he's going to know he got you where he need you and he's going to donit worse. I say stay with him while your pregnant and a little post partum but in the mean time try to make arrangements to move around. You don't have to leave home forever but LEAVE to show him he doesn't have a hold on you.

Cheating is already a disgusting thing to do. But cheating on the woman that is growing your babies, is just beyond disrespectful. If he’s willing to cheat on you while you are carrying his babies, then he’s willing to cheat on you whenever! Leave, that’s the best thing you can do for yourself & for your family.

No worries! Reach out if you have any twin mommy questions! It’s hard but such a special experience in so many ways💞

@Morgan im gonna message you

He sounds toxic