Husband watches porn does that consider cheating?

In my opinion, cheating has to be something that is done with another person. This may have upset you, but your partner didn’t have any sort of sexual/emotional relations with another, so I don’t see it as necessarily cheating. But it may be breaking some relationships boundaries. It depends, I personally have no problem with it but I know people who do. This is why it’s so important to have discussions like this early on, so that things that aren’t necessarily obvious to everyone, are then well known to be boundaries. ❤️

Me personally, i dont anymore. But if you do, thats all that matters. Your boundaries for your relationship are the most important regardless of anyone elses opinion.

I consider it a mental cheating cus you’re getting off to someone and in my eyes I only have eyes for my fiancé I only want him and if he’s getting off imagining these women nah that’s wrong imo just my boundary though like you’re staring at her titties watching a pov imagining its you? It’s not it for me I feel weird about that myself if I’m not getting off to him it feels wrong that’s my man tf

It depends on if you’ve set that boundary. I don’t think there is a hard and fast rule, every relationship is different.

I think that depends on the couple. Before getting married, this should be a common conversation for couples to discuss boundaries. My husband and I agreed that porn is considered cheating to us before we agreed to marry each other. Have the conversation with your partner sooner than later because it’s not going to be healthy moving forward without mutual respect. If you feel cheated on, explain that feeling to him. If y’all didn’t already set those “rules” then set them now. Including checking out others in public, masturbating in general, going to strip club, having friends of opposite sex, etc. Without talking about these issues, you’ll never know how much one another will feel impacted by those decisions. It’s truly different for every couple

Not cheating but still could be violating boundaries

I consider it cheating unless you watch it together then it could be fun but having my man jack of over another na I don't like it

No but I’m not a fan of it… especially when the searches are the complete opposites of what I I look like… makes me feel shit 🤷‍♀️

For my marriage it’s not cheating. I don’t care if he watches porn, he doesn’t care if I watch it. I don’t like watching it together because I feel like it’s weird lol.

This depends on what boundaries you have. Might not be ‘cheating’ but can be a betrayal of trust in some circumstances.

If your partner has a porn addiction that you are aware of and continues to watch that or if you have both agreed not to watch it ect thats betrayal of trust.

I swear this is the most asked question on this app 🫣 I understand why people need to ask it though, I get it makes people feel uncomfortable to find their partner watching porn. However I don't think it's cheating though.

Maybe. If he does this instead of one on one time with you or hides it.

I voted no, however I think it depends on the context of the porn too. E.g. if it's free and just standard online stuff then no not cheating. But if they're paying someone for porn on OF or another platform then I'd personally see it as a huge violation and essentially as bad as cheating. Like if they're paying for content from someone specific (especially if it's anyone they know). But I do hate my SO watching porn because it makes me feel unattractive when I know the girls he watches are nothing like me, and makes me feel like I'm not enough for him to be satisfied

yes