Baby daddy girlfriend drama

I really hope she joins this and sees this post and comments. She's an acc joke... and so is your ex.. the deserve each other. If a woman spoke on my child calling them a dog... see you later. He better leave her before he sees them again. I'd put him on child support & key her car or something and say it's not nice damaging peoples prize possessions. And if she said anything I'd say prove it lol. But that's just me 🤣🤣

Karma will get her ass 🙄

It sounds like he isn’t doing very much, I would tell him he needs to pay more, and control his girlfriend and not allow her to treat your shared child like that, or i would be going to court, personally I wouldn’t let anyone around my child that treats them like that, ALSO remind him it takes two to make a baby and he should be just as responsible for paying for that child as you are, if he still causes a problem especially with her being involved i would go to the courts, I get that she’s pregnant and your children will be siblings but in my honest opinion they will never have a relationship as long as their mother acts such ways and if they do it won’t be a very positive one

If someone called my child a dog I would 👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻

As someone who was also forced to go to their dads house, please stop doing that honestly 💯 its more traumatizing than you ever know . It’s a clear reason why they dont want to go , dont keep forcing them to put up with that treatment. As far as her, she just sounds like a piece of work to deal with. And the fact that the dad allows that to happen shows a lot about his character in relationship with his own kids. Go to court to get some strict and clear boundaries in place or handle everything on your own and leave him out the picture because he’s clearly doing more harm than good being in your kids life

I agree with this but my only fear then would be what if he tried to take her to court and then ended up getting some custody? I would hope and pray the courts ruled in her favour cause if not the kids really will be forced to see their dad and I think that’s probably more traumatising honestly x

he already dont care about those kids I hight doubt he tries that honestly. He’s shown he could careless about their well being by allowing the verbal abuse. The courts will look at that especially being as tho him and the girl live together and rule in her favor. Plus he already barely pays child support they definitely wouldn’t give him custody because he cant provide for them

this is the problem. We have already been through the courts and he gets court ordered visitation which is why I have to make them go even when they don’t want to. We go back to court on May 13th. I’ve been doing this with him for 3 years. Our divorce isn’t even finalized yet because every time we’re supposed to go in front of the judge, he’s gotten a continuance 5 times. I have done nothing but take this seriously but unfortunately, I legally can’t keep the kids from him.

see this is what I feared for you. It’s easy for others then to say keep him away from the kids but you’d get into some serious legal trouble if you did that, plus he seems quite spiteful. It’s obvious he doesn’t want the kids but he seems like the type to be spiteful just to spite you and I hate that, I hate the position you’re in. All I will say is she’s in for a shock because he doesn’t provide for the 2 children he already has idk why she thinks he’d provide for her own xx

they did give him visitation without him paying child support… I just got told to go through DHS for child support but they’re taking forever.

If they don't like going I wouldn't send them. If he's not paying. Drag his sorry arse to court...if she can be horrible about your son, I wouldn't put my children near her without you around... I'm sorry you have to do this alone. It's really difficult I'm sure! Your children know who really love them and who means the most to them and that I'm sure is you ♡ xx

I was referring to having custody. Keep calling DHS keep annoying them until they get a move on it . Advocate for them kids !!! call every day if need be 💯 I know how the system is failing right now , they dont care until something tragic and unfortunate happens. Light a fire under them until its solved 💯 I called my local office 32 times in one month and went there probably 7 . Keep pushing it , also start documenting every single thing as proof. And don’t send them back over there until after the court date.

Google says Oklahoma is a one party consent state so you can legally record any conversation you are a part of. I would record every interaction with them.

If you don’t have a lawyer and can figure out a way to afford one then I would get one.

Personally I would not allow my child to go to their house anymore. If she’s so comfortable to call your son a dog in front of you imagine how she’s treating them behind your back. If the father wants to see his child he must see them at the grandparents house if a good relationship is there. Also, let child support know how he’s missing out payments in uk when this happens they just end up taking money automatically out of their account.

Do you have a custody agreement because I vote take it to the courts ( they have these advocates that help you fill out) and once he is deemed unfit you can get child support

she doesn’t have this option, it’s court ordered visitation unfortunately :(

Family court. Stop being nice. He's the one who needs to step up and be a man. Stop being nice. Who cares if she's prego. He's probably going to take care of that child than the ones he already got. Protect your children, cause no one else would.

I mean calling a child a dog and the children not wanting to go because she’s mean is a problem. Start documenting now !

Save screenshots and then some, start recording conversation and go to a lawyer about this along with everything else showing him he is a bad person and then some to not just you but the children and poof! They will make him act right when paying for the child support every month and let them say they don't want to be at there dad's house for how him and the gf treat them they will see it for themselves he isn't worthy