End of my 10 year relationship

I'm so sorry you're going through this. *big hug*
Best advise I can give, is keep yourself busy and just focus on your little prince. Things will get easier with time, you're stronger than you think ❤

I’m sorry to hear that I’m in the same position as you my partner of 10 years told me he’s leaving me and our 2 kids and it sucks! Feel free to message me if you want to talk

I just left a 7 year abusive relationship (6mo ago). Just got my kids dressed and walked out and didn't go back. It was THAT bad. I spent several months being homeless with 2 kids and pregnant while also going to school. It's been a hellish 6mo, but we have an apt now and I only have a few more months left of school. Then we'll be set. If I can get through all of that, plus more that I didn't even mention, then you too can come out of this dark time better off. You got this! It will get better.

I’m sorry you going through this! For someone who was in the same situation baby daddy my first everything when we separated I cried for couples days everyone would call me to see if I was fine I didn’t want to do anything I was in bed just crying 😢 but after few days I realized I didn’t need to cry or be sad because I was born next to my mother amd I will die alone. I had to keep my head up for my son. Now I’m happy married with a man who loves me, loves my son, expecting our first child after 9 years being together. God has a plan for you. Times heals everything just remember that.

The thing about an addiction it takes over people that isn’t him anymore he’s half the man he was ! Because the addiction took over so never think use wasn’t good enough because that’s simply not true my only advice is feel the pain and don’t push it away it will hurt more in the long run hope use are doing ok ❤️

Laura, I’m so sorry you are going through this. My current partner has been in & out rehabs trying to stay sober since we’ve been together (3 years). It’s been so rough on me & my 18 month old. I’ve been contemplating ending the relationship because I believe it’s become toxic. I’m here if you need a friend to talk to. Feel free to message me.

If he is a alcoholic he will have no answers alcoholic drink because I feel like they have to ask if he's willing to go into a program or go to an AA meeting and work the steps. I want to give up on him being an alcoholic myself but I wouldn't expect any answers of why . I know it's really hard and I'm sorry you're going through this you can also go to an Al-Anon meeting where people have the same thing in common with you

My story with my little girls dad and my 4childrens step dad over alcohol is heartbreaking. He needs to admit he has a problem he needs to seek help if he cant give up. My fiance at the time was drinking from morning till night every day without fail, I begged and pleaded for him to stop I took him doctors got him on medication to help him with withdrawal, he was even drinking on the tablets, then one night he said his walking himself to the hospital to get help, then I got a knock at the door saying his been knocked down by a car I had to sit the children down and them his gone to heaven. Drink is evil.xx alcohol abusers get worse xx good luck xx

It’ll get better with each day that passes. Focus on your sweet baby. I have a similar story with my daughters dad, it’s been 9 years now and a very distant memory. Don’t be hard on yourself either. Learn who you are again, without him. It WILL get better.

You’re so beautiful 😍 and your son is handsome. Just pray and talk to family and friends right now dear i know it hurt and I’m going through a lot and I’m just 7 weeks

Focus on your son. You’ll slowly start healing. Your son will heal you. Also pray pray pray!

You are so beautiful! And baby is precious! I’m 27 and a single mama to 2 boys. I made the choice earlier this year to separate from my baby dad. He struggles with mental health and addiction. I understand how difficult that can be. One day they are amazing, the next they are a nightmare. It was hard, but definitely best for my children and I. (It still is hard!) Message me if you’d ever like to chat more.

Well you are beautiful so allow yourself to heal while being single. It's easy to jump into something else bc you think it fixes your pain to have those feelings for someone again but it's the worst mistake ever!! Just focus on yourself and get tunnel vision. See only an end point for you and your son and don't let anyone penetrate your tunnel. Become a mom that your son can be proud of and eventually when you are all healed from the hurt(because it takes time) you will be so thankful that everything happens the way it did. Someone who sees and appreciates your strength will come In and be an additive to you and your son and never take away anything from you.

I ended up splitting from my husband due to his drinking and addictions. Do not take it personal, it is not you!! You both are enough! It’s his decisions and his own issues that cause that. Alcoholism and addiction are so hard and hard to understand and I encourage you to find good support and counseling to help you heal and don’t put blame on yourself.

I hope you get back together!xx I know what it was like breaking up in pregnancy and getting back together and breaking up.

First. That’s baby is so cute and you mama are so stunning 😍.
My advice, is keep moving forward and don’t look back. Life gets better. I know from experience I left behind a horrible relationship that I was in also since hs and it was the best decision I made for me and my son.

You did the right thing. If he's an addict this is the only thing that can get him to wake up and truly get him to reach his rock bottom. Praying for you both!

Make a podcast and we’ll talk ♥️🥰