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Legitimate Interest

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  • A car manufacturer wants to promote its electric vehicles to environmentally conscious users living in the city after office hours. The advertising is presented on a page with related content (such as an article on climate change actions) after 6:30 p.m. to users whose non-precise location suggests that they are in an urban zone.
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  • You read several articles on how to build a treehouse on a social media platform. This information might be added to a profile to mark your interest in content related to outdoors as well as do-it-yourself guides (with the objective of allowing the personalisation of content, so that for example you are presented with more blog posts and articles on treehouses and wood cabins in the future).
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  • You are one of very few to have clicked on an advertisement about an “international appreciation day” discount by an online gift shop within the app of a publisher. The publisher wants to have reports to understand how often a specific ad placement within the app, and notably the “international appreciation day” ad, has been viewed or clicked by you and other users, in order to help the publisher and its partners (such as agencies) optimise ad placements.

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  • You have read a blog post about hiking on a mobile app of a publisher and followed a link to a recommended and related post. Your interactions will be recorded as showing that the initial hiking post was useful to you and that it was successful in interesting you in the related post. This will be measured to know whether to produce more posts on hiking in the future and where to place them on the home screen of the mobile app.
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  • The owner of an online bookstore wants commercial reporting showing the proportion of visitors who consulted and left its site without buying, or consulted and bought the last celebrity autobiography of the month, as well as the average age and the male/female distribution of each category. Data relating to your navigation on its site and to your personal characteristics is then used and combined with other such data to produce these statistics.
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Information about your activity on this service, such as your interaction with ads or content, can be very helpful to improve products and services and to build new products and services based on user interactions, the type of audience, etc. This specific purpose does not include the development or improvement of user profiles and identifiers.

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  • A technology platform working with a social media provider notices a growth in mobile app users, and sees based on their profiles that many of them are connecting through mobile connections. It uses a new technology to deliver ads that are formatted for mobile devices and that are low-bandwidth, to improve their performance.
  • An advertiser is looking for a way to display ads on a new type of consumer device. It collects information regarding the way users interact with this new kind of device to determine whether it can build a new mechanism for displaying advertising on this type of device.

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Content presented to you on this service can be based on limited data, such as the website or app you are using, your non-precise location, your device type, or which content you are (or have been) interacting with (for example, to limit the number of times a video or an article is presented to you).

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  • A travel magazine has published an article on its website about the new online courses proposed by a language school, to improve travelling experiences abroad. The school’s blog posts are inserted directly at the bottom of the page, and selected on the basis of your non-precise location (for instance, blog posts explaining the course curriculum for different languages than the language of the country you are situated in).
  • A sports news mobile app has started a new section of articles covering the most recent football games. Each article includes videos hosted by a separate streaming platform showcasing the highlights of each match. If you fast-forward a video, this information may be used to select a shorter video to play next.

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  • An advertising intermediary delivers ads from various advertisers to its network of partnering websites. It notices a large increase in clicks on ads relating to one advertiser, and uses data regarding the source of the clicks to determine that 80% of the clicks come from bots rather than humans.

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  • When you visit a website and are offered a choice between consenting to the use of profiles for personalised advertising or not consenting, the choice you make is saved and made available to advertising providers, so that advertising presented to you respects that choice.

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In support of the purposes explained in this notice, your device might be considered as likely linked to other devices that belong to you or your household (for instance because you are logged in to the same service on both your phone and your computer, or because you may use the same Internet connection on both devices).

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“Sexy” for a 6months old girl

My husband is a normal guy; there is nothing wrong with him. The first time, when our daughter was two months old, he called her “sexy.” I told him that was very inappropriate and not to call her sexy again. He got mad and said not to even talk to him. So now our daughter is 6 months old, and today at the pool, I put sunglasses on her, and he said, “Oh, sunglasses on, you look sexy.”
So I told him again she was pretty, not sexy. She is a child, and the word sexy is for adults.
He was vulgar to me, and he said this: “Who do you think you are? I call her whatever I want. She is my daughter. Only perverts like you would think something weird about me calling her sexy”. I just stayed quiet.
He is a great father, but it's disgusting to hear that my daughter is sexy. And it's disgusting to hear that im a pervert because I paid attention to it. What are your thoughts, girls?

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Oh, ick ick, my biggest ick. No, words have meaning and you should NOT BE CALLING A BABY, OR YOUR DAUGHTER, SEXY. What does he think sexy means exactly?? Would he call his own baby slutty? Fuckable? That's so wildly inappropriate and gross. Ew. You are not crazy, keep her safe. I would be running. Anyone calls my baby sexy, that's the last time they get to see my baby.

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My thoughts are I would never leave him alone with my daughter ever ever again. Now imagine if she is a 6 year old girl playing mermaids with her friends and he calls them sexy. Same premise right? Yeah no that’s perverted and all trust would die on the second time. Especially since he would’ve yelled at me.

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@Meghan If my dad called me sexy, I would never feel comfortable around him again, and I'm a grown woman

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My husband did the one time out of pure ignorance and just being a “male” I corrected him. He was furious with me also, but soon came back and said he understood where I was coming from & that was not his intent. It’s just a “word” for a male but for a women it’s so much deeper. Maybe give him some space to process.

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@Nicole nope, she told him once that should’ve been enough. Sexy is connotatively associated with sexual appeal. If ANY man thinks a BABY/DAUGHTER has sexual appeal they’re perverted and disgusting. If my husband did that and I corrected him and gave him his one chance, and he did it AGAIN. I would never ever let him be alone with our daughter and I’d monitor his pictures and videos. Any evidence to him being a pervert and I’d divorce him and take full custody.

There are too many sick bastards out there and I’d be damned if my husband was one of them. He’d answer to a hammer if he was creeping on our baby/daughter or any baby or child for that matter.

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@Meghan girl I didn’t ask you for your opinion. This young woman asked if anyone else experienced this and what are OUR thoughts. Never said it was “right” or “okay” I clearly said to a MAN the connotation of the word may not be clear to them. Therefore, educating them is essential. However, when educating someone you give them the information and let them digest it. If that concept is foreign to you, I would not doubt it. Have a nice day (:

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@Nicole, you're right. I gave him three hours to process, and then I came to him and told him to listen because it was a critical topic. So after I explained everything, he said he understood—and he didn't mean it in a sexual way.

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But does he want her to grow up thinking that’s an acceptable comment from men? Of course it’s weird because of her age but he also has to consider that if he keeps doing it, she will accept it from others. I personally hate being called sexy aside from my besties & husband. I feel like with him making it a “normal compliment” now she’ll accept it from randoms when she’s older.

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@Hannah, I completely agree. I talked to him about it and he understood that as well.

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I mean no disrespect but get her away from him plz

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@Alexis hands down to this, I left him on the spot with restrictions orders, well what a hard situation to deal with

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@Meghan 🏆🏆🏆🏆

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@Kea better now that later

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I will supervise him 200 percent

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ABSOLUTELY NOOOOOOOOOT!

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Red flags is a thing, I don’t know you will have another one if there is a situation ask God for advise, it’s a though position in what you are right now

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That would make me angry and uncomfortable. Don’t leave her alone with him. Document everything in case you need it later. Trust your gut.

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@Alexis i second this. It is gross. He also tries to flip it around on OP that she is the pervert. Honestly, I would be having some serious doubts about this guy and I usually root for people’s relationships. This is just like huge 5-6 red flags. Yes-Protect your daughter and yourself

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I feel like for men it’s more like sassy. Like I’ve never actually heard a male call a female sexy.

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🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 if "sexy" comes to mind when looking at a child, SOMETHING IS WRONG! Please get your daughter away from him and somewhere safe.

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This is wild. The word SEX is in sexy. Why would you want your daughter to be associated with sex?!!! This is a red flag!!!

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