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My baby daddy is super pissed of because I moved to Tennessee which is one state away from the one we were living in before and now that he knows he is flipping shit and starting problems. I did try talking to him about us moving but just like most of my texts he read and never responded. I really don’t see why it matters because he is in her life just as much as he was when we lived in the same state. We aren’t fully divorced yet but haven’t been together and trying to get a divorce for over a year and six months now. He doesn’t ever talk to his daughter or try to see her so he didn’t even know we moved until we had been there for two full months. I get that it was wrong for me to move, but he hadn’t even tried to text me and ask how she was doing seven months prior. Even before that he was telling me he didn’t want her over or visiting his family and was in the talks of letting the person who’s been stepping in the father role to adopt her. All of a sudden he is trying to get full custody, has called the cops on me saying I kidnapped his daughter and spreading rumors about me abusing her. I let him talk to her whenever he calls and send him pictures even tho he never replies. The cops in this state and his have both said that I haven’t done anything illegal because no custody arrangement is set tip through the court yet. I have no idea how he plans on getting full custody when he is living out of his car, on and off with a job and a drugie who has been caught plenty of times in the past and was kicked out of the army for manufacturing and distributing level one federal narcotics. Oh then his mother who was living in his car with him started to send me death threats. I own a house, a new vehicle and my daughter has her own room with a bathroom plus there are better schools here.
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Learn more about our guidelines.Make sure you save the evidence of all the times you messaged him about it and tried to communicate about it - honestly I think he’s full of hot air and won’t even actually try to get full custody but doesn’t hurt to keep the proof on your end
Oh he tried, it was in his papers and he apparently wants child support even tho he’s never even had her over night since the day she was born and broke into my house and trashed my entire house and broke everything in it including her nursery
Just keep extra copies of all the texts and evidence even email it to yourself and/ or print off copies
Contact a lawyer. If he wants involvement, let the courts handle it. It'd cost him $200 to petition the court for visitation. Serve him child support and let them handle it. Talking to a lawyer is FREE and you'd only have to pay retainment if you want them in court w you.