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In the past I’ve heard people say that they don’t enjoy playing with their toddlers and I never thought I’d be in the same position! I’m not sure if it’s burnout but recently I have such a hard fine focusing when playing with him. I can’t stay present and my mind keeps wandering off after 10 minutes. I’ll end up finding something that needs organising and suddenly I’ve moved away from playing and I’m in the corner folding clothes or doing some other chore.
I hate this but I’m not sure how to get better at it. I want to be that fun bubbly mum but it’s not coming naturally to me. It’s making me feel really guilty because I feel like my son deserves better. He’s an amazing boy and I love him so much and I hate that I’m not more present. I feel like these years are gonna a fly by and I want to make the most of them. I’m a stay at home mum so I’m with him 24/7. Recently I’ve noticed that when his dad is not working Ive been leaving him to play with our toddler more and more while I go off and do some chores or cook. I feel like my brain needs a break but then at the end of the day when the toddler is asleep I feel like I’ve barely spent any quality time with him and feel terrible. I try to plan a lot of days out and that seems to make it easier but now that the weather is bad we’re stuck in the house a lot more and it feels very repetitive. I enjoy it more when we’re colouring or playing with play dough but since he’s still quite little that only holds his attention for 5 minutes and then he’s just throwing the crayons all over the living room.
Does anyone have any ideas for activities that will keep him entertained for a decent amount of time that we can do together? Or any other tips to help with this? Is anyone else struggling as well?
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Learn more about our guidelines.My lg loves her toy kitchen and will play with it for ages.
She like me to pretend to order something and then she goes and makes it and brings it to me.
We then pretend to eat it etc.
This can go on for ages and she never seems to get bored of it.
It is often me that ends games as I have loads of other jobs to do.
She will just carry on and follow me around with the teapot and cup!!
Hey, feel free to drop me a message as I’m in the same boat! I think it’s just mam guilt eating at us on the night time as I literally feel the same way too but I don’t think our babies really think into it as much as we do. I’ve found tiktok have some good little activities to try, maybe try & have a search as there was a few new things we did x
This is completely normal. We’ve been with our babies for 20+ months now. It’s exhausting and hard work. So don’t feel bad. U can’t be present and engaging and fun and everything else all the time. Especially if there’s no “village” around, and all the normal life stuff we have to do. So yea I’m the same. Our super recent addition was a bucket of duplo that I got second hand. He sat and played with it for over an hour. So that’s a new win. Can’t really leave him too much to it though because the coordination and precision and the force of pushing the blocks on gets him frustrated so u got to be there guiding and helping but it’s a total win. So defo recommend
I feel like I could have written this myself. I think it is normal. We don't have a village so it's me most of the time as my other half works. Have you tried getting your little boy involved in the chores with you. For example when I'm sorting the washing I ask my little girl to pair up the socks. And when I'm hanging washing she hands me the hangers and tries to help. It takes a lot longer that way but I feel like I'm not ignoring her and she's also learning skills. I also try to remind myself it's good for them to also learn to play independently for a bit too. I think we are too hard on ourselves sometimes. It's a hard job that is 24 hours a day non stop!
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