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I love my husband he is a good man. I am not in love with him. He’s incredible but broke my trust many years ago (not infidelity) and I never got over it. Throw in a miscarriage and a miserable marriage. 3 kids later I’m currently pregnant and I know I need to leave.
I’m a SAHM with no where to go. I can’t be with him anymore he depresses me everyday I feel so crappy. It’s not him. It’s how I feel about him. But he keeps the roof over our head and the nice clothes we wear. Without us he doesn’t have anyone and that places a lot of guilt onto me if I leave.
He’s very handsome and I’m sure will make someone very happy it’s just not me.
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Learn more about our guidelines.Would marriage counselling help?
If it's a no, then that's fine.
You need to speak to him and let him know what's on your mind so you manage the breaking up as maturely as possible. Having a therapist here helps.
You haven't done anything wrong.
This happens. You can all move forwards in time.
We’ve tried it. She basically told us to separate. I’ve tried speaking to him he sits listens makes a plan then next morning back to playing happy families
If you want to try to make it work, I think this would be an ultimatum for me - either he makes an effort to listen and tries to change things or you leave. I imagine with 3 (4) kids it must be very hard to feel in love a lot of the time - I only have 1 and feel this way sometimes but marriage is something that has to be worked on and if he’s not willing to change that then don’t live the rest of your life unhappy x
None of the above. I’d say make a plan before leaving. Can you get a job & get some of your own money in the bank before leaving? Unless there’s abuse going on I’m a big advocate for keeping the kids in a comfortable living situation until you can comfortably provide for them on your own.