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Is anyone local to Forestdale, Pixton Way, Selsdon area, and can suggest NHS medical practice, GP to register with? The closest one I'm seeing is Farleigh Rd
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Learn more about our guidelines.I’m with Farley road medical and they’re great. If I call up in the morning I can always get an appointment same day. They also release appointment slots at 12 for that afternoon. I believe they have a surgery in forestdale too. Or their part of the same trust. But I couldn’t recommend them enough!
Selsdon Park. Absolutely brilliant - you can get a same day appointment if you phone in the morning or before afternoon surgery. Never had any complaints, staff are always friendly and helpful, nothing is too much trouble.
For context we live in England we’ve had pretty decent weather for the past couple weeks
My man literally always thinks it’s cold even when it’s like 22 degrees Celsius
So it’ll be like maybe 17-20 degrees in our house and he’ll switch on the heating bearing in mind I pay the utility bills and we are in minus at the moment meaning we owe the company (from having the heating on all the time in the winter which is needed as we have 2 small children) and he knows this
I’m on maternity leave atm so don’t get much I do some ad hoc work but because I’m with the kids all day I can only really do in the evening he’s also aware that I don’t get much time to work
I always tell him to put a jumper on if he’s cold in this weather and I have just been switching the heating off it’s so frustrating we constantly go back and forth about the temperature what else can I do at this point as I’m really hoping not having the heating on will balance out our gas bill
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we arnt very wealthy and we just get by , we cant afford expensive bags or luxury holidays were living a simple but good life. i buy used clothes of vinted for me and my daughter because everything is expensive, i have to think about how much the bus will cost or if its cheaper to walk to certain places and now my husband decides to order a PS5 ( he has an xbox) and he said he just wants to treat him self. isit reasonable to be Fc*nggg pissed off..
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What do you do when you just start to hate your kid..
He’s 4 and his behaviour is absolutely horrible I’m struggling with chronic illness and pain and I’m doing my best to show up for my kids but my eldest is just horrible, he’s so demanding and rude he spits, hits yells at me and the minute he doesn’t get his own way he fixates and tantrums over and over again and his poor sister isn’t getting the sleep she needs because he’s always waking her up with his nonsense! I don’t know what to do anymore I love him but I feel like I hate him at the same time I’m so depressed and disconnected from him I’ve done so much research on parenting boys and gentle parenting and nothing works! he’s so passionate which I try to encourage and it just shoots me in the foot every time because he loses his temper over something not being exactly how he wants it he’s also waking up multiple times a night now either peeing the bed or going to the toilet which in fine but it’s just exhausting and he’s waking up at 5 and refuses a nap so he’s just an angry bratty mess all day and there’s just no positive moments anymore because the nice things we do are never enough, never enough new toys, never enough time out, never enough sugar at what point does it just seem like he’s growing into a rude ungrateful little boy because it feels that way 😕 come at me all you like you can’t hate me more than I hate myself right now
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I live in California and my mom lives in Missouri. I moved here about a year and a half ago. I’ve seen my mom a handful of times, but this is the furthest away I have ever lived from her and the longest I have ever gone without seeing her. I’m very close with my mom and I miss her like crazy. Especially since having my daughter I feel like I need her so much more. My husband works a lot and is often tired after work and doesn’t help much so I don’t get much of a break most days. I may be struggling with some ppd and I just really want to go stay with my mom for a week to reset and get some rest without feeling guilty because my mom would so willingly help me. My husband doesn’t want me to go because 1. He doesn’t want us to travel alone, which I can understand but I know I’m more than capable. 2. He thinks I want to get away from him. And 3. When I bring up how I think it would benefit my mental health he says that it would be bad for his. It’s just tearing me apart. I feel like I should be able to go, but he does not support the idea at all.
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What are we doing about partners who just don’t seem to have any interest in the kids?
2 kids to my partner and whenever I ask him to do something like change a nappy, get them dressed/undressed, get up with our toddler in the morning I’m met with huff and puff and an eye roll…
He also is on his phone twenty. four. seven.
(admittedly I’m on mine too) Our toddler will be talking to him and he’s just oblivious, if I’m on my phone and my toddler wants something/wants to show me something my phone goes away
If I say have a daddy & son day just them two…. He will go to his mums house.
Our 8 week old has trouble getting wind up so can be very very unsettled sometimes and he just doesn’t have the patience, our toddler is your average on the go none stop toddler who doesn’t stop taking, brings you 10 toys at once to show you 🤣 and he just says “oh mate give your dad a minute” & when I try to explain he doesn’t understand “give me a minute” he’s just excited to show you his toys he just says “I know but it’s a lot” like yeah… kids are.
Whenever I bring it up he gets defensive, thinks I’m attacking him and his parenting ect ect and it just turns in to an argument
What would you do in my situation
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My ex partner and I had been together for a year and a half before I decided I no longer wanted to be in the relationship. He just wasn’t making me happy anymore. Unfortunate for me I found out I was pregnant a month later and that’s when I had to reach back out to him. He was pissed and said a ton of nasty things to me that a never gave a response to. Fast forward, two weeks later he reached out to me apologizing and saying he wants his family together. I invited him to an ultrasound appointment and he was super excited. In a perfect world I would love for us to be a family but I’m truly unhappy with him now.
I hate to bring a child into dysfunction but In this moment I would just love to have a healthy coparenting relationship with my child’s father but when I bring it up he gets angry and tells me he won’t be around to be a father for our child unless him and I are together.
So now my question is .. does anyone have any advice for me as far as me being able to be open to TRYING to make our family work? I’ve thought about going to therapy with him but are there any other ideas, advice or suggestions that other mommies may have for me. My other options can be to just be a happy single mother and let him not be around since I don’t want the relationship with him.
I know the ultimate decision is mine but I really don’t want to be selfish and I need some advice to open my mind up to making the right decision for my child and I.
Thanks in Advance 🫶🏾
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