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Postpartum mental health
Im a single mum with little to no help, by that i mean she goes to nursery and i have a sibling that has her over night if i have a special occasion or something, i have been a mum for coming up to 4 years and she has been away from me 6/7 times (excluding nursery when im at work) and honestly im done. I dont want to parent anymore. I dont want to play with my child, i dont want to answer the same question multiple times, i dont want to have to get straight back up when i sit down, i dont want to have to wipe bums or take her out every day or act interested in stuff or have arguments over little things. I love her to pieces but i just dont want to it all anymore. I have adhd so a lot of daily things i struggle with anyway but im just drained, but I feel so guilty.
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I have been seeing this guy for about 6 weeks I've known him very casually for a year or two but he has intentionally met my daughter just twice accidentally when we've been out and bumped into him i hadn't even told him her name until we started seeing eachother. Its my birthday soon and he said he bought me something which is whatever but then he also said he also bought me something as a present from my daughter because he said he didn't know if anyone would get me anything from her (she doesn't have a dad). I know he's probably just done it to try and be sweet because he is a very caring person but it kind of annoyed me a bit and i feel a bit weird about it but I don't know if im overthinking it and overreacting a little bit?
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he broke up with me about 4 days ago, blocked me on everything and said he doesn’t wanna hear or see anything about our baby girl. i feel devastated. ever since i got pregnant he wasn’t a very good partner. but before, he was perfect in every way. i was 18 at the time and i wanted an abortion because i wasn’t at a good place in life. he talked me out of it. since i gave birth, i had been begging him for the bare minimum. he basically treat me like he wanted nothing to do with me. my daughter is 14 months old and ive been struggling with motherhood the entire time. now that he’s left, (even though he didn’t really help out with anything at all anyways), i don’t know how to cope. i feel so alone & i don’t know how to move forward. i was struggling with motherhood so much as it was but now he’s left i just don’t even know how to continue.



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Fostering & adoption
Hi all, my partner and I have recently split and plan to tell the kids this weekend. Im feeling sick about having the conversation....are there any words of advice on how best to deliver the news to the kids? They're all 5 and under so I guess mainly my 5 year old will understand what's going on....
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A couple years ago I decided to move back in with my mum after having my baby as I was living alone with a new born and really struggling in all aspects of life. It was the worst decision. I feel like my mental health is worse than it was before. Now I want to move out again but I’m unable to register to the housing list for my borough as I haven’t been living in it for that long. I’ve been trying to save but it’s slow as I’m only part time.
Any suggestions on ways to make an extra income or way I can get onto the housing register?
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