I’m in this boat too!! Mine is 4 weeks old and will not sleep unless on my chest, he hates being swaddled but tonight I waited til he was already asleep and put him in an HB brand swaddle thing that Velcro’s and it’s fuzzy and he has been asleep for 5 hours with a feed and a change in between and he didn’t even wake up .
To my understanding, since she is only a month old her sleep pattern wont always stay the same. My son is 9 months and still doesn’t sleep thru the night every night. Its all about being on their time lol, it eventually stops when she gets old enough to adjust to a schedule, but with that every baby is different🫶🏾