Manifesting ex back

If he already has a girl then you’re just a piece of ass he wants to dip in every now and then 😭 he’s greedy and wants his cake and eat it too 😅

He hasn’t been with anyone else the past two years only me even though we weren’t together. He met her two weeks ago

Have the conversation with him like are you sure that’s what you want if so then ima leave you alone and see what he chooses

That won’t work.

How do you know he wasn't with anyone else? He met 2 weeks ago which means he's over you. Guys are good at making you feel like you're the only one especially if they know you're still in love with them

You shouldn’t have been giving him your body with no commitment, but anyway that’s the past. Now, IF he dates her and still wants to see you for sex, you can tell her everything snd it will ruin things between them. Personally, I’d just stop seeing him completely and start dating others. If he’s the father of your baby, then I’d file child support and that’s it, no more of me for him even if it hurts in the beginning

I would be honest with him. Tell him how you truly feel. If he wants to be with you, he will and if not then as painful as it might be. You’ll have to move on. If you do have to move on just know that you’re worth it and YOU ARE ENOUGH! You’ll hurt but you’ll heal! Keep your head held high regardless of the outcome! I’m here if you need to chat.

My 2 cents as a manifestation coach and someone who successfully manifested (along with using spell work) an ex, but it didn't last... There is often a divine reason why things don't work out and holding on in this way is actually both resistance, non-acceptance and an energy of lack (i.e."I don't have"), none of which cultivate a space for manifestations to actualize. What's often hard to see is that if he's not aligned to being with you, that's actually your alignment to. When you hold an energy in your field that isn't in alignment with your highest good, it doesn't allow space for what is. I completely understand he seems like everything right now, that's how I felt about my ex. But even though I got him back, the outcome was the same, with more time "wasted" and delayed experiencing true reciprocal love. With absolute compassion, and I know it can be so frustrating to hear, but I suggest focusing on you and how amazing you are, rather than everything about him and what's happening in his life.

@Christine, so in other words we can't manifest anything we want

Honestly I made this post at pretty much my lowest point in life. And apart from Christine and Lauren I feel like everyone else has been so judgemental and just rude. I am so heartbroken and trying my hardest to keep it together and don’t need anyone judging me or making rude remarks I alresdy feel shit enough as it is

@Fatima it's more of a grey area that that. What we "want" is relative. More often than not, what we want to manifest isn't a thing or specific person - it's a feeling. If the universe came to you and said, okay, you can have that person, but it's not going to be what you imagine it to be and will likely cause you pain & suffering because you can't control that person, would you still truly want it? You can manifest the most amazing love in the world, but because we often can't see the bigger picture beyond our general 5% human perception, we don't see that the greatest love in the world might not be from the specific person we're chasing. Or to look at it in another way, we don't always want to manifest $10K or whatever amount, we want the feeling or experience behind that (e.g. freedom, security etc) 💜

Instead of focusing on your ex, I would try to get clear on what you really want. What attributes / personality traits is it that you want? Disconnect those from your ex and just focus on the traits without tying him to them. Think about those and focus how being with someone with those traits would feel, what your life would look like, what you would bring to the relationship and what they would be bring to the relationship, imagine being happy with whoever it is that has those things that you are after. Again I think its important to focus on these things and not necessarily your ex. Hopefully this will manifest a relationship with the things that you are looking for, whether that be with your ex or not. Good luck!