Have your gynecologist tell your fiancé in person that it is not recommended for you to have another baby before your current kid is 18 months. It hits different coming from a medical professional.
@Breaha trust me I did
I've read that OBs recommend waiting a minimum of 18 months between births. Tell him your OB said that.
Talk to him, tell him your body and mind is not ready for another baby so soon and that you are doing what's right by your body and going on birth control If he doesn't like that tell him he can carry his own kid and push it out his own vagina 😊
Omg I'm sorry but if you have to use doctors as an excuse to your husband it's not good in my opinion If you don't want another kid yet he should be okay with it because he doesn't need to go through the struggle of carrying them and then pushing their big head and body out