Handling Baby Daddy’s Parents

Hi! I’m currently in a situation because I am unsure about how to handle my baby daddy’s parents and family. Let me explain, the father and I were together for almost a year. When I got pregnant he did not respond and blocked my number for a month. I reached out to his parents and both sisters because I just needed a response of what was going on since he didn’t answer. They ignored me. When he did talk to me a month later he told me to kill her and leave him out of it. It has been a back and forth every since of him saying he changed his mind and then disappearing again. It’s exhausting and I need a straight answer from someone. I have been very kind to him and forgiving. I am trying to make it easy for him to see her for her sake. When he left the most recent time, I reached out to his parents again explaining the situation in high detail (I’m unsure of what they know) and begged them to reply and intervene since I am 8 months pregnant and can’t chase him around any longer. I also messaged the sisters again and the one blocked my message (instagram tells you). He is now back and swearing he’s involved for good now. I’m willing to forgive since that’s her father but I’m unsure about this family. I still haven’t heard from them but I’m sure that I will eventually once she’s born. Is it wrong to say that I don’t want to meet them and don’t want them around her? I feel like this whole situation has made me see that they are not good people and don’t care about the baby or me. I have begged them to be involved and they have ignored me. I held the door open for them and they slammed it shut twice. I don’t feel like reopening it. What do I do? They have completely disregarded the baby and I and I don’t want it involved. Is that wrong?
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@Chantay I know that it is. I’m trying to be patient, forgiving and kind but there’s a level of protection that I can’t forget. I pray about it all the time and am so blessed to have this baby. I don’t ever want her to feel like she isn’t the blessing she is by letting people who treat her poorly in

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