Run
yeah maybe at least postpone the wedding. You guys need to have a serious conversation and let it all out on the table
Girl do what's best for you and your baby. I've been engaged for 2 years (maybe 3 can't remember lol) and I've straight up told this man I will not marry him till he makes some improvements and helps me out more. Throughout this pregnancy he has stepped up a little but has been unemployed for 2 months which I have a problem with. You DESERVE love, respect, affection, and help through pregnancy and after baby is born. Don't forget you matter A LOT.
Do not marry him.
Girl… please run. Please . For you and the baby sake. Just run
Run.
I’m ngl just don’t get married , ima ask why haven’t you called it off already if you felt like this ? You know what you deserve and settling for , don’t keep leading him on as y’all finna get married , he honestly should’ve been stepped up it doesn’t take marriage for someone to be a man if he can’t show you that before marriage why get married ? You’re still young live you’re life it’s plently other men that’s ready to show you what it’s like to be loved
Run girl and don't look back. You'll be taking care of two children, not just one. Major red flags.
I agree. You've given up a lot already and no one has time to wait around waiting for someone to step up if he hasn't by now. You've voiced your concerns, now it's on him to take action.
Run. You and your baby deserve better
Proof is in the pudding if he's shown you his character there is no getting better honestly it'll only get worse from here on out a selfish person will always be a selfish person if you don't feel marrying him is the right thing don't force it men feel even more entitled over you when married.