@Rina he never listens to me I say no to sex he guilt trips me until I give in and just lay on the bed and let him
I wouldn’t tolerate that people around my kids . My house is my kids safe space and privacy . If he stills want to hang out with those people we can do it far way from the kids . We should have respect the kids and protecting their safe environment. And the fact that he didn’t validate your words saying you were not comfortable is a big red flag .
If you say no to sex and he still manipulates you and does it without your consent that’s consider rape . I think in my opinion you have to many red flags . I would grab my kids and go if I was you .