in Pregnancy loss, stillbirth and infant loss 👼

When does it get easier?

My son passed as a still born at 30 weeks. Life just seems so incredibly cruel. The hole in my body wear I used to carry him and the hole in my heart from the grief cripples me at times. I lost a lot of blood and the weakness in my body feels so much harder to combat with the weakness in my heart. I hurt so bad..

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I’m so sorry mama. My babygirl passed at 34 weeks in 2020 and for the longest time I thought I would never heal I would never feel better and I’d always be empty I isolated myself from the world but my best advice is to surround yourself with supportive people that love you and care about your wellbeing it’s still hard 3 years later I find myself daydreaming about life would be like with her I can’t say it’s easier or you’ll get over it because you never will but one day you’ll smile again, you’ll laugh again. No amount of words can take away the pain of losing a child but once again I’m sorry I’m so sorry for your loss for your pain, for your sorrow, I pray your family is able to heal and continue to grow one day

I'm so sorry Jessa. I think everyone experiences and carries the grief differently. But for me personally, that first month after was awful. My stillborn baby would have been 6 months old yesterday and it still hurts and still sucks but I personally have a lot of faith and hope because I believe and know I will get to see him again one day. Sending you lots of love. You will get through this, one day at a time.

@Kai I am so so sorry about your loss. 34 weeks is so close to the end. It had to be devastating for you mama. I am praying for all the families that have lost a little one. It’s supposed to be a time of joy and then to befall such a grieving outcome.. Thank you for sharing your story and your light ❤️ it means a lot to me ✨

@Aubrey Thank you Aubrey. I am so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine that 6 months from now I would feel any better, but I love that you brought up your hope for seeing your little one again someday ✨ it’s something I haven’t gotten the chance to think of yet. It would be such a pleasant surprise that after a long life I will get to see my beautiful baby boy again💕 sending you much love and gratitude ✨

I was 35 weeks when my baby was born on November 7th 💔 my heart is with you. I wish I knew when it would feel any different. I feel like it hits at the most random times too. I just started crying at the grocery store cause I saw a pregnant lady rub her belly 😮‍💨