Goodbye Old Family

I have just heard from Andi what you have been saying about us you are no longer our daughter I suggest you collect all your stuff from here before it goes in the bin we have loved you all your life and you treat us like this you and your boyfriend are a nasty piece of work and we want absolutely nothing more to do with you we love Arthane dearly but you will not hear from us again do not come to the house whilst we are away or I will contact the police you can tell your friends and his family your story but we know what we have done for you in the past with our love and money but that seems nothing to you we have felt so ill over this but it now gives us strength to move on Enjoy your new life This was the message I received from my ex dad today I smile because we are not nasty pieces of work, they are and they can't see it, my parents always used to use the fact they brought something against me when we argued which was alot, I guess I don't have to put up with their horrible actions anymore :) Anyone else here no longer in touch with their parents?

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7 years no contact with the birth vessel. Crazy road of healing and realisations. Here's to your journey ✨️

@Charlotte I was adopted so never was greatly connected personally. What caused your seperation decision?

@Charlotte Thank you 💃✨

So, I tried very hard to get her to take accountability for a lot that went on in my childhood and her choices. She refused to, turnt on me, and told me I was disgusting for saying I was abused by her partner. I had to close the door there and then. I'd genuinely tried everything to better pur relationship but I held my head high walking away x

@Maridel what made you reconnect...

@Ameenah I know I just don't understand it, they just can't listen ever, everytime me and my partner tried to talk to them about how e felt it always reverted back to them, or my dad would just cut us off and interrupt and then get mad, I used to say please dad for once just listen and he'd go no you listen to me, always had to control and be right all the time, would never hear our story or reasons

@Maridel I see, yeah I wanted my baby to have his grandma and grandad In his life so I put up with the way they treated me to try and let my baby and them build a relationship but I used to cry most nights because my dad would say horrible things and never listen to me When I confronted him on his comments and horrible comments, he would respond it's just the way I am and I'd say yes and this is just the way I am and he'd say yes and we don't like you, we love you but we don't like you

OMG I can relate to too many of these posts. I need friends I can talk to who relate because this stuff is agonizing and I always feel like I’m the problem.