Feeling sad

So my little boy has been poorly and miserable for three days, finally starting to feel a little better this afternoon so braved the supermarket to stock up on food. Whilst there, little one had a meltdown (very unlike him). Whilst I was dealing with this, a woman comes up to me, asks me if he’s an only child, says she can tell by the spoiled meltdown. Notices that I am heavily pregnant and then tells me good luck, it only gets harder. What happened to mums looking out for each other? Was at breaking point anyway and this has just tipped me over the edge. I’ve come home in tears.

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I’d have slapped her in her face there and then 😅 I know it’s easier said than done but don’t let people like that make you feel down, you’re doing amazing & a great great job! Unfortunately some people are so unhappy in their own lives they like to bring others down any chance they can get.. There are moms out there that don’t judge just because your child is kicking off etc because we don’t know the circumstances and it’s bloody hard having children, you’ve got this momma don’t be too hard on yourself you’re taking care of him and he’s safe that’s all that matters 🤍

Oh no! I hope you and your little one are ok. She had no right to say such things!! How out of order and none of her business, what? I am shocked for you.. I would have said something rude to her for sure especially if I was already at a breaking point. How ridiculous?! And as you said since when we bring down fellow mums.. women really. You hang in there my lovely.. You are doing great! Sending positive thoughts for a speedy recovery for your little bub and so much to you too. xx

How flipping rude.

She’s just one of life’s dicks. She’s shown herself to be rude, inconsiderate and arrogant so I wouldn’t be too bothered about her opinion! I really feel for you because I know an interaction like that would really upset me as well. Please try to push it out of your mind. She’s got a problem, not you x

Very rude. Also what is her point? Doesn’t like people to have one child only but also likes to put people down about having more than one… you’re a mum already, you know it’s hard sometimes and you’ll find your way with two as well 🤗

Wow! She must be a pretty sad person to want to make someone feel like crap when it’s clear they are already having a hard time! It’s her issue, ignore her xx