23 year old isn’t making the BIG Leap.

My daughter has basically moved out. She has been gone for nearly 5 or 6 months. Coming to visit. But, doesn’t SAY she has moved out … has even gone so far as to say no, I’m not moving out👀. What gives? One foot in and one foot out … She is 23 years old. Honestly she is my first and I’m not finding it easy to hear my husband and MOM talking about just packing up her stuff and making it into his office. It’s pissing me off with both of them😡🤬! We live in California and to live here is hard. What would you do?