When I went into labor and delivery I did worry about my firstborn a lot but I kept telling myself that he’s safe and happy.. I only ever let someone I completely 100% trust watch him overnight so I wasn’t too worried. Had my second baby a week ago and there definitely is an adjustment period but I still am able to show my firstborn how loved he is and that he is still very important to me. I had my mother-in-law watch my son for 3 days so that once we had been released from the hospital we could have at least a day of being home getting used to a new baby before we brought our son home.. best decision I ever made because that first night home was super rough for us.
You will absolutely love him the same. I had all these same fears… my first born was the apple of my eye and I didn’t understand how I could feel that way about another… but you do! My second born stole my heart in just the same way. They are chalk and cheese, polar opposites and I love them each for who they are and the joys they bring to us, equally. X