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@Irene it's not just about the alcohol though . Idk how to explain it .
@Destiny i apologize. I didn't mean to assume it was just about that.
@Destiny i used to tell my husband that he had a big mouth, bc he would talk to co workers and family members about any issues we were having. It annoyed the crap out of me, bc other people don't need to know everything that goes on inside of our marriage. I had to argue with him to make him understand lol🤦🏻♀️ like, nobody needs to know that it's been 4 days/6 hours/ 15 seconds since we last had sex 😂 I'm exaggerating on that part, but you get the idea. It's frustrating, but have you told him how you felt?
@Irene we both definitely tell others almost everything lol. But then we talked about it but he still does it lol
@Irene and yes I have . He just shuts down
I've been sober for 10 years, and i kinda went through the same thing. My husband obviously new about everything. I did talk a little to him about it, but not much. Honestly, it was just helpful to talk to other people who understood what i was going through..,whether they had been in the situation, or someone close to them. I wanted to talk to my husband more about it..,i know he would listen, but he couldn't possibly understand what i was going through. I appreciated that my husband didn't push me to talk to him. That's why there are N/A, A/A meetings, bc sometimes it's just easier to talk to someone who can relate. Don't push him to talk to you about it... let him come to you. Just tell him that you're here for him if he ever wants to talk about it. I wouldn't take it personally. 💜 I'm sure all of that can't be easy for you either. It's always nice having a supportive partner.