Please be nice , feeling fragile 🥹
My baby is 7 months old and his dad has been very difficult to deal with (we aren't together) he has a gf and she has been very nasty towards me, his dad introduced baby to her without my knowledge before I even knew she existed, I tried to be nice and get to know her but she always had excuses not to want to meet , then things got nasty ... I'm finding it very difficult to trust my baby's father alone with bubba as I feel like he's going to take him straight to his gf as soon as he gets the chance and I don't feel comfortable with that at all. Baring in mind he has already cut contact with me a few times since baby was born and I'm sort of waiting for this to happen again , it's been really difficult
So my question is I guess , am I wrong?
Is it any of my business who my son is around? Should I be letting his dad spend time with him alone?
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A big no from me. You 100% get a say in who your son is around. If you are not comfortable with it then do not allow it. His dad should support your decision and if he doesn’t that is irresponsible on his part. Only supervised visits.
Thank you all ❤️❤️🥺
Trust your gut and you're baby's mum so your say is primary. I'm so sorry you're going through this and hope it gets better. Shoot me a message if u need a random vent, happy to be an ear đź’›
Absolutely not your baby’s mother you have every right to know/say who baby can be around and who can’t. Don’t feel bad for it either it’s your decision if it makes you uncomfortable don’t allow it. It would make me uncomfortable especially with the way she is. Supervised visits only!!