Idk if that relationship is healthy or not but that’s not what you’re asking. If it is just for sex, why can’t the guy just come over after toddler’s bedtime?
You shouldn't be doing this while toddler is awake anyway because who would be watching the toddler while you're having sex?
You cant find a baby sitter or trusted friend to watch him for a few hours ? Its not really wrong or like the worse thing in the world but I think it would be better to meet with him outside the house or when the baby isn’t home.
Ur free to see who you want just cause ur a single mum doesn’t mean you can’t do this. But I would suggest maybe get a sitter or if you can’t just invite him over when ur little one is in bed so the child don’t have to meet him I’m going through something similar x
I have married sex while toddler is on her iPad in the same room.
He wants sex, but what do you want? If your answer is also just sex, get a babysitter and go to his place. There's no need to get your kid riled up with feelings and questions over someone who's not a long-term interest...