Partner problems

Anyone else just have a partner that does nothing but sleep 24/7. I was up with my eldest as she was sick so I asked him to get up with the kids. He was then downstairs asleep on the sofa whilst the kids had poured soap all over the hallway floor and made it so slippery. He then made plans with his mum to leave now and he’s just asleep again and I’ve hurt myself from slipping in the hallway so I can’t even get stuff ready. I’m about to expect my 3rd and I’m starting to doubt he can even handle it at this point? Like he was getting better with it so the third wouldn’t have been a consideration if I hadn’t of seen a change in him but now it’s just back to sleeping all the time and I’m panicking.

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Sleeping all the time is not normal for adults. He needs to make an appointment with his doctor and get blood tests done to find out the underlying cause.

I’ve suggested this and he won’t do it. I’ve basically begged him too because it’s at the point where I don’t trust him alone with the kids as he isn’t watching them at all he just sleeps and that’s it. Then gets annoyed when someone wakes him up and starts shouting so I don’t really want the kids to be shouted at because they’re waking him up for help with things

Then you leave. Plain and simple. If he’s unwilling to help himself and is a danger to your children as he can’t look after them properly, what use is he to you? A grown adult male who would rather die than seek medical help is quite simply, an idiot. Let him be a single idiot and die alone is that’s how he wants to live his life.

Does he work night shift is that why he sleeps during the day? Or is the dude just unemployed and sleeping all day. I would have pulled his ass off the couch onto the floor and screamed that I could’ve slipped and fell, being pregnant and he couldn’t even supervise the kids as he was told. My hubby never ever falls asleep unless I’m there to have another set of eyes, he just doesn’t do that.

Hes been off work for 2 weeks and does a 9-4 job. I just don’t get how he can sleep so much and not think of it as a bad thing

Get him checked for narcolepsy. Two of my friends have it and they do this too.