I looked like a weirdo

No pointers but this made me lol

He's getting some. Guarantee your face only bothers you lol

I wouldn’t really worry your husband loves you for you No matter how silly you think it’s only you that makes you feel that way

Im afraid of eye contact too... We like the dark and I like my eyes closed. Eye contact freaks me out during sex. It almost makes things go in slow motion then I over analyze....

@Michelle I’m super insecure as it is, more so recently because I put on some weight. But staring directly into his eyes freaks me out lol… it’s like “can he see me?” 😂😂😂 but he was staring dead at my face the whole entire time and I want to try and reciprocate. With my luck I’ll stare at him and he’ll turn away 😂😂

I mean.. 100% being honest. Communication is key. Ask him, be like, does it bother you I don't look at you. Do you even care. I doubt he cares. I've had that talk with my husband. He understands. He doesn't need me to look at him to get the job done haha

Bend down and put your face in his neck and throw that thang in a circle! Naw but fr i haven't had sex in a minuteeeee because I'm still getting used to my new mommy body so I feel the insecurities. But thank you for the giggles, that narrative was A1 😄

I doubt he will turn away if he is staring at your face like this! He must think it's hot 🔥 so I wouldn't overthink it. Some people just like staring more than others, typically men lol. Maybe stare for a few seconds every now and then and let him do the rest of the staring!

I don't think I could ever watch myself 😅. My partner loves to stare at me if I'm on top, and tbh I love abit of eye contact during sex, it's SO sexy!

@Rebecca @Jen I legit looked like I had one big ass yawn that wouldn’t come out. So embarrassing. 🙈 and he was staring at my face the whole entire time with a quick glance down low. I’ll bring it up to him later. He thoroughly enjoyed himself I know that but ofc this overthinking mind of mine lol

@Anna I was for sure throwing it.. to where idk lol 😂

I don't know if you've ever watched porn but most of the faces being made aren't sexy 🤣 This is real sex not erotica!

@Jen very true. I just talked to him and he said he stares at me cause I’m beautiful and he loves me 🥺. So I asked how he feels about the fact I don’t stare back? And he said “well you always want me so I know you’re attracted to me.” Now I feel bad that was even a thought in his mind. I’m going to try my hardest to look back at him lol.

Try starting by practicing eye contact with your clothes on. Put a timer on for 5 minutes and stare into each others eyes, no touching, no talking, no interruptions. It feels scary and weird at first but I promise it’s so incredibly intimate and worth it. After you get over the initial awkwardness five minutes will fly by.

@V love this idea. I catch him staring at me a lot and I will look into his eyes but never for long. I end up blushing and looking away. He has these beautiful piercing blue eyes and I feel like he can stare into my soul, it’s a very scary thing when you’ve been through past trauma. Not that I want to, but at the same time my defenses go up and you want to hide that part of you. I’m going to definitely try this! Thank you.

Aww, sounds like you have a good one. I am the starer in my relationship and my husband is the look away one. So from the other perspective it really does mean a lot when he agrees to do this exercise with me. He always says he’s glad we did it afterwards though. 🤗