Finding it hard to talking about how horrible the symptoms are the nausea and the horrible migraines without having people say that I got myself in this position and it’s my fault no one else’s

Of course I get that but shouldn’t i still be allowed to complain about how horrible it is especially with already having a 8month old baby to look after that crawling everywhere and into everything without people saying i should have learnt from last night when not every pregnancy is always the same unfortunately this one seems to the same as the last but it’s just hard feeling like i can’t talk about how i feel and the horrible side of pregnancy

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Ignore the comments, pregnancy and being a mother is hard on our best days, I suffer with migraines and I had all the comments when I had my daughter 9 months ago why am I having another one when I suffer badly. You are allowed to moan, and feel like crap some days, you are doing the best you can and that’s all you need to do x

@Bekka thank you so much it’s so nice to have someone understand and not just blame me and say i can’t complain and just deal with it because it’s my fault and I got myself into the situation my own mum that’s had 7 of us is saying it and how she didn’t complain I said well u clearly didn’t have any of these horrible symptoms that I do and because she didn’t have any of these symptoms and her pregnancies were nice for her apart from towards the end when she got fed up she just doesn’t get it unless you have been through it you could never understand how bad and horrible it truly is x

Unfortunately like you said yourself , if you have never been through it you can never really understand, when I was pregnant with my daughter I could spend days in bed in a dark room and just try and ride through my migraine, I’ve extremely lucky I have a very supportive and understanding partner that helped me through it and kept the ship afloat with our older son , but I had people that didn’t have the right making comments how I decided to have another baby I have to deal with it. Every woman , mother , pregnant or not should be able to moan and groan and not feel judged the world is tough out there and we all need a support system , I will always have an ear for a mum , woman to moan and groan to! ☺️ x