Surprise two under two helpš
Dose anyone have any experience with 2 under two i currently have a 12 month old and I am 5 months pregnant with baby number two my first baby is still so little so I have no idea how Iām going to do this or help her understand that sheās gonna have a baby brother anyone with experience please help š my little Princess means everything to me Iām so scared sheās gonna feel neglected šā¤ļø
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@ellie thank you so much!!š«¶š¼
My son 1.5yrs old at the time got closer to his dad after i had baby #2. He was clingy with meā¦ but because he was still getting attention from his dad he didnāt feel neglected at all. It was actually cute to see him be a big brother. Youāll be fine - youāll be able to manage time for both your babies.
My first had only just turned 5 months old when I conceived her little sister. There is exactly 14 months between them. I had the same worries that my first may feel left out, I won't deny that at time sometimes it was clear that she missed the 1-1 time as it's all she knew. However, for me that wasn't for too long. Bear in mind she was also a bit younger. Have her 'join in' whatever you're doing with baby. Maybe get her, her own baby & make it playful/learning at the same time. She won't feel neglected but it'll be a bit different & you all learn a new routine together. They'll be the best of friends, trust me š„°š„° & its really not as bad once you're living what you worried so much about. You'll figure it out & you'll love it š