Everything sucks

My marriage is failing We're on thin wire Brain fog won't go away I'm so so tired 2 under 2 is hard even tho I love them I hate my job Barely staying above water financially I don't do anything else but work take care of my kids and clean I feel like I'm slowly drowning and don't know how to make any of it better. I suppose maybe with time but right now it's awful. 😞 I want to enjoy this time when they are little but I don't feel like I can even get enough time with them or I'm too stressed out. I'm afraid how all this will affect them. I'm in counseling but it seems like a slowww process. Can only go every other week and it's at least $100 a session out of pocket so idk how long we will be able to do it.. it feels impossible to fix

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Im so sorry you’re struggling hun. This is alot to juggle at the same time. I say take a leap and rid of what u can control one step at a time.. like that job!! Is there any way to push towards getting into a field you enjoy so that you can quit your current job? Job hunting will probably take up more of your time but hopefully it is only for a short space of time till one aspect of your life brings u relief

@Sadia appreciate the reply thank you. The tough part about the job is that they are flexible with my childcare scheduling. I've tried looking before in the past when I could, but I'm also just not qualified for a whole lot.

That sounds like a lot! Do you both want to make the relationship work? Communication will be very vital. If you have brain fog, you may need to see a holistic dr. Like a naturopath to see if you're missing any key nutrients. 2 under 2 is tough without working on top. If you can id start by counseling together.

Aww shucks!! What is your field of interest? And about your partner… is he/she helpful and supportive during this tough time? Because their help could make such a major difference in alleviating the pressure and stresses you’re facing.

I've been there. Currently separated n 7 months post partum but the time apart is helping us. Here if you need to talk