Dating challenges

What are the biggest challenges you've encountered while dating and trying to build a meaningful relationship as a single mother in today’s modern world? I've found it increasingly difficult to meet people who genuinely want a committed relationship. I keep connecting with men who are only interested in something casual or short-term. And the few times I thought I’d found something meaningful, it turned out to be the opposite—leaving me hurt and disheartened. It feels like many men today are afraid to emotionally invest. Being a mother adds another layer of challenge—my time is limited, my privacy is rare, and that can make it harder to build and nurture a connection. I often feel rejected, not just as a woman, but as someone who's trying to build something real. I deeply want to expand my family and find my other half—to grow with someone emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. But these days, even having a genuine romantic conversation seems enough to make someone pull away. It’s exhausting and, at times, really discouraging.
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I feel the same way. I don't want to be pessimistic but I sometimes think my chance at finding authentic love is over, even when I haven't found it yet

Thank you for sharing this—it really resonates. As a single mom myself, I’ve felt that same discouragement when it comes to dating. It’s exhausting putting yourself out there, only to find that many people aren’t willing or ready to meet you where you are—with depth, commitment, and understanding of what being a mom entails. Time, energy, and emotional space are already stretched so thin, and when someone isn't serious, it feels even more draining. You're not alone in feeling hurt or rejected. I believe there are people out there who are capable of real connection—it just takes more patience and boundaries than ever before. Sending strength and solidarity.

I def feel this too so very much

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