Southside Mom Friends?

I’m 24 next month. Went from engaged to a placeholder while “my bd get his shit together”. for some girl that “held him down when I left” (I left cause he puts his hands on me and talks to me like the ground beneath him since having his child). We dated for 6 years and live together still. I shouldn’t have came back bc now my finances and everyday life takes a toll. When he leaves to be with the girl in his phone that means I’ll have nothing but OUR kid. I want my own money back and he isolated me to the point to where I have no friends and I have no family here in Jax. I’m just looking for someone with an abundance of patience and around my pace of life that might wanna be a village to each other? Like if I had work I watch my kid and yours and if you have work the same. We can go out and do stuff together and all I just want somebody on my side fr. The father of the child got me to come back to stay with him under the means of coparenting but we just sit in a dark room watching him play ps5 all day and complain about how tired he is while his life literally hasn’t changed pace since having our son. I just need help before I lose myself more than I already have.