Is he weird or am I weird lol

( She is 23 he is 28 ) I'm kind of thinking my partner has a weird relationship with his sister, I do think this is only one sided and it's him being weird and not her though. So when we were dating we were on the phone, he was getting changed with his door open and mentioned that his sister was looking in etc, I shrugged that off but did feel a little weird about it. Then when we were waiting to move into our house, we had to live with them for a bit, she wears really short shorts but shes in her own home so of course she should be able to, but as she walked by him he looked in her direction, I gave him a weird look but didn't say anything as I didn't want the confrontation in their own home especially if it's just something innocent and then I look deranged. Ever since we've moved out, any movie we put on, anything I see or say, he brings up his sister saying she used to love this movie, or she used to do this certain thing or do that etc. Something just feels off and I've thought that way for months. I brought it up to him once and he told me I'm being insecure and jealous. It was as if we were arguing about him fancying a co-worker not me feeling as though he likes his sister lol. He went to their house during his lunch hour, she works from home and didn't know he was coming home so was having a shower at the time, she then came out and said she'd thought someone had broken in, he was relaying this story to me but had to include that she was in just a towel. I don't know lol, I don't even know how to bring it up to him again because last time wasn't great. Is this actually strange behaviour from him or is it just me overthinking? He always says how they aren't even close etc so I wouldn't think everything would be a massive topic on her if we watch a new movie.

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It seems weird to me. My partner barely mentions his siblings to me, and we see them every few weeks. I wouldn't necessarily say he fancies her, but it is odd behaviour from him.

They aren’t close but he will just show up to her house on his lunch break without her knowing he’s coming?

Weird af I don’t behave like this to any of my siblings. My ex did showed me a pic of his sister once and said to me ‘do you not wear clothes like that’ and I thought that was weird, why would you want me to look like your sister? She also wore short shorts around her brother and it just rubbed me the wrong way. I would never dress like that around my brothers

🥴yeah that’s strange. I’m 21 and my brother is 24 and I would NEVER how weird from both sides

I wear whatever i want around my younger brother(as in shorts and just my bra) and he doesn’t even care or budge because I am of a different culture where we weren’t raised to sexualize each other’s bodies- American culture seems much more superficial and sexualized in that regard but I digress. The shorts around her brother shouldn’t be the point of concern or suspicion because siblings should be most comfortable and vulnerable around each other atleast. The issue should be the constant comparison and references about the sister that he allegedly isn’t close to.. not to mention his need to note and divulge unnecessary details like the towel situation🥴 That speaks to some sort of unhealthy attachment because if not close, why are u constantly reminded of your sister. Is he bottling up some dark truths that he needs to get off his spirit🤷🏽‍♀️

@Sam yh your ex was mighty weird for that one… not normal lol