Help please idk what I’m going to do
I am 7 months pregnant with my first child. I had to break up with my daughter’s father and am currently in the process of moving in with my parents. I cannot deal like I thought I would be able to.
I want to live in a home but I have to pay to get out of the lease with my ex fiancée and I have no time to find another place to live even if I could afford it. I cannot move back in with my ex because he doesn’t respect me in a way that he should and we need time and space from eachother to adjust to our new lifestyle and I don’t want to be in a space where I’m not respected.
Moving in with my parents has made me very uncomfortable and upset. Rude comments boundaries crossed that I have tried to set before. I feel like I cannot breathe here if I say or do anything out of their “perfect” box I’m crazy, stupid, or dumb. I feel so uncomfortable here mentally, physically, and spiritually. I have no respect here as well.
I’m going crazy and I’m honestly very heart broken realizing no one truly loves me because they all may have love for me but do not respect me. I don’t know what to do or where to go I just want a home. I feel like my only choice is to pick a place that would just put a nice roof over my daughter’s head and just suffer through the stress and struggle. Idk what to do neither place is good for me. I have honestly thought of even leaving the states just to be more comfortable now and when baby is born but idk where to begin or if I would be able to afford that.
Any advice on what to do?
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@sakia I get that but I almost feel like going back and ex and I living in separate rooms till lease is up because if I’m going to live with someone that has disrespected me maybe I should be with him because at least he is willing to hear me out and atempt to change and do better…
I think it’s important to do what you feel most comfortable for being pregnant is so mental challenging and having additional stress isn’t helpful at all so if you think living with your ex in separate rooms is better for you and your baby I think that’s a good decision
I am not sure if you are able to get any help from the council / government, I was in a similar situation where I had to move out of my now ex husband and I home and move back in with my parents it wasn’t at all what I wanted as we have this image of a perfect home for us and the baby but then that image gets destroyed and it’s hard to even imagine getting back up and moving forward